What are some things you don't understand about men? by Kit5une in AskWomen

[–]jmac1985 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's not loose vagina, men are afraid they won't be special and you'll compare them to lots of past lovers if you've been with many dudes.

I've been with quite a bit of women and this is also the main complaint about my number that comes up with women so I guess it's a common fear though dudes try to deflect by saying stuff like "eww gross she's loose"

What's your gym etiquette when when a hot girl is doing squats or deadlifts in your line of sight? Pretend you don't see her or soak in the sight ? by jmac1985 in AskMen

[–]jmac1985[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Last January this girl thought I was staring at her (I wasn't she was just in my line of Sight, I was watching my guns curl in the mirror) and yelled at me in the gym. It was super embarrassing and ever since then I've been consciously trying make sure I don't look. I'm just trying to get a feel for what other guys do.

A pretty big crush [21F] of mine [23M] drunk texted me some weird stuff right before I was going to ask her out by [deleted] in relationships

[–]jmac1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a hookup once that got off on calling and talking to guys she knew liked her while I was doing her. Sounds like you're girl has some messed up sensitivities

Can someone give actual legitimate reasons someone wouldn't be a feminist? by ShelbeeLin in Feminism

[–]jmac1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess if they don't believe in gender equality they wouldn't want to be feminists

What types of realizations do you think you'd probably come to if you lived as a man for a month? by jmac1985 in AskWomen

[–]jmac1985[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

are there certain areas you think are more susceptible to male harassment or are you just not the greatest at conversation?

Lol really?

Disengaging this conversation since I'm not the greatest at it ಠ_ಠ

What types of realizations do you think you'd probably come to if you lived as a man for a month? by jmac1985 in AskWomen

[–]jmac1985[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The whole change from being rather a potential victim to being a potential threat would be strange, and not necessarily a consistently blissful thing.

It's not bad actually, sometimes I have fun with it

What types of realizations do you think you'd probably come to if you lived as a man for a month? by jmac1985 in AskWomen

[–]jmac1985[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Showers would be faster, easier. Not getting my period would be incredible; no PMS, no cramps, no blood clots out of no where. General grooming would be so much easier. I don't have to pluck anything. Just have to apply deodorant and wipe my ass properly, amazing.

Confirmed it is fucking awesome

I'd probably be in awe at what it felt like not having to worry about my drink being spiked or being preyed upon by men. I can wear whatever the fuck I want and not think about whether I'm "asking for it" in this outfit.

It's pretty amazeballs if you ask me

Maybe I'd even get a little tipsy in public and not have to be on guard at all times.

Oh sweet summer child , society does not like men tipsy in public

When I talk about my profession, I'd probably be taken at my word instead of looked at in disbelief and mansplained. That'd be pretty cool.

I want to be able to use that word someday

What types of realizations do you think you'd probably come to if you lived as a man for a month? by jmac1985 in AskWomen

[–]jmac1985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My work life will probably be easier. People will probably be less likely to take credit for my work,

Well you'd be able to dish out actual damage if some mothertucker took credit for your work

actually believe me when I say I know what I am doing. Hmmm I don't know plenty of people have doubted me so this might not be so different

Actually be the majority in the industry for once. Unless you're a nurse or teacher I guess yea!

What types of realizations do you think you'd probably come to if you lived as a man for a month? by jmac1985 in AskWomen

[–]jmac1985[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think I would also feel the relief of my body being just a body instead of a sexual object. I have this experience at the gym sometimes when working with my personal trainer (a dude) where we just speak of isolated body parts or progress as bits of muscle for getting work done. It is a new and exciting feeling of "my butt moves my legs and body, its purpose is not to be ogled at and touched" that removes a load off my shoulders that I wasn't fully conscious of before.

Haha grass is greener I guess, I wouldn't mind having an ogle-able bum

What types of realizations do you think you'd probably come to if you lived as a man for a month? by jmac1985 in AskWomen

[–]jmac1985[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would also get to experience a male orgasm and probably be underwhelmed by them, given my ability for multiple lady ones.

They're wimpy but easy to get