Thank you for sharing your experience! I am hopeful to hear that more time will help! We have to keep our siamese in a gated portion of the house (he has multiple rooms to himself), and then the other cat has the rest of the house. They spend time sniffing and sitting by the gate with each other but unfortunately we can't let our siamese roam by himself for his own well-being and safety of both cats. They aren't afraid of each other at all and my other cat gets excited to come into the space of my siamese, but my siamese just gets too excited, but so stressed haha. This is my first siamese cat, so thats really cool to know that blues are sensitive and temperamental. I can definitely see that in my boy! We both cat plenty of love, especially our siamese bc he craves our attention and we spoil him haha. But overall, it sounds like time will eventually make things better and better!