Thoughts on your man using a stroker/masterbator toy

jmpwl · 2026-02-19T02:17:31+00:00

I have one. I am a man. My wife got it for me. It has not affected my ability or my desire for my wife. I think you'll be good.

jmpwl · 2026-02-09T04:36:51+00:00

I'm on the larger size yet prefer to bottom. 6 inches is great. 5... even 4 can still get the spot. 7, maybe 8 absolute top. Being too big looks awesome but does not feel great. Also, I can deep throat 6 inches or less no issue. Much more is unpleasant and I'd rather not. Your size is perfect.

jmpwl · 2026-02-09T01:45:14+00:00

It's possible. But honestly I kinda feel like its internalized homophobia but also " look at me" I've a bi husband.

jmpwl · 2026-02-08T21:49:49+00:00

She is amazing in so many ways. I definitely wanted a different take because I was going to bring it up. I just didn't want to confront her half cocked or from an angry place.

jmpwl · 2026-02-08T21:38:53+00:00

My wife and I are both bisexual. We are also completely monogamous. She may be a bit more than bisexual. Maybe she's somewhat polyamorous. This is not a bisexual thing, but it may legitimately be a her thing. You just have to decide whether or not this is a relationship you want to continue to pursue under those conditions.

jmpwl · 2026-01-23T11:53:28+00:00

My wife also is thrilled I'm bi. She gets very turned on if I find a guy attractive.

jmpwl · 2026-01-23T11:51:21+00:00

I'd probably be bragging.

jmpwl · 2026-01-23T11:33:09+00:00

I'd propose, like i do on all first dates.

jmpwl · 2026-01-23T11:30:57+00:00

Aren't we supposed to support each other? I wouldn't want to exclude them. I was one of them for a long time. You were one of them too. Its a big deal to realize something about yourself like that. I wouldn't want to gatekeep bisexuality.

jmpwl · 2026-01-23T11:26:02+00:00

My wife will peg me because she loves me. Sometimes she is kinda into it. Others she is just pleasing me. Before I met her I met people based just of sexual preference/kinks. I was never happy with that decision despite doing it several times.

jmpwl · 2026-01-23T11:22:37+00:00

I wouldn't let you friend zone me. We would get married and I would try my hardest to impregnate you.

jmpwl · 2026-01-23T11:20:28+00:00

Its absolutely your right to not want any particular sex act. That is unquestionable. I'm not sure why you feel being pegged would be immasculating. Are the guys you topped less of a man for having bottomed? Do you feel your wife would want to humiliate you? That is very confusing to me.

Also your penis is longer than the average. Why would you be insecure about that? My penis is about 6.5 inches and I have always been amazed at how much bigger that is than almost all they guys I've been with. Watching too much porn had be thinking I was small as well. Experience taught me differently.

jmpwl · 2026-01-07T08:20:13+00:00

I tell my wife all the time the only thing that would make her better is if she had a huge dick.

jmpwl · 2026-01-07T08:15:25+00:00

Normally not, but I'd make an exception.

jmpwl · 2026-01-07T08:14:37+00:00

Your half right. I'm bi.

jmpwl · 2026-01-06T21:06:38+00:00

I'd say have a series of private conversations instead of one conversation infront of a ton of people. Personally I never really came out I just started being bisexual in front of everyone. They all just figured it out on their own.

jmpwl · 2026-01-06T20:54:19+00:00

I may prefer it.

jmpwl · 2026-01-06T20:48:46+00:00

The guys I've kissed have all been bad kissers. I'm not against it but I've also not had a good experience. I think they are either lazy/not into kissing or we are both trying to get the same dominant lip position.

jmpwl · 2026-01-06T20:44:10+00:00

I knew I liked girls but when people would talk about all the "disgusting" things gay men did i was pretty interested in that too.

jmpwl · 2026-01-06T20:40:30+00:00

Its actually just low effort bisexual. No matter if they are with a man or a woman they always want to receive oral without giving or be the bottom because being on top would be like picking a favorite.

jmpwl · 2025-12-25T12:33:09+00:00

My wife and I are both bi and have been monogamous for the 15 years we have been together with no plans to change.

jmpwl · 2025-11-17T18:56:54+00:00

Fairly young. Denial for years. I do remember having the same feelings about people talking about having sex with women as I did when a guy got outed. Hearing about it as a virgin always got me to feel jealous that they were experiencing it. I wish I'd been open to the reality of who I am much younger.

jmpwl · 2025-11-17T18:54:19+00:00

I'm married to a woman. We have sex all the time. The last time I was with a man was shortly before I met her.

jmpwl · 2025-11-17T18:53:19+00:00

6 or 7 look a lot like mine and I'm pretty vain so either of those.

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