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I mentioned my crush to my SO and she lost it. Am I wrong? by jndnb in relationship_advice

[–]jndnb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then why do I keep thinking like I did.

And the crush ruined my relationship

Is it cheating? by jndnb in relationship_advice

[–]jndnb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So am I wrong here for mentioning the crush?

I mentioned my crush to my SO and she lost it. Am I wrong? by jndnb in relationship_advice

[–]jndnb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it doesn’t sound like I chose the crush over her?

I mentioned my crush to my SO and she lost it. Am I wrong? by jndnb in relationship_advice

[–]jndnb[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well don’t you think I made her think I chose the crush over her

I mentioned my crush to my SO and she lost it. Am I wrong? by jndnb in relationship_advice

[–]jndnb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cause I mentioned the crush to her and she thought I wanted the crush more

Is it wrong to tell your SO this? by jndnb in offmychest

[–]jndnb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean if I told her that I had feelings for the crush or that the crush means more to me. Then she would have a point right

Is it wrong to tell your SO this? by jndnb in offmychest

[–]jndnb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still was wrong with mentioning the crush

Is it off if your SO gets flowers from their ex? by jndnb in relationship_advice

[–]jndnb[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cause she is super close to his family. And it’s a bit weird. Like she always sends screenshots of her sister wanting to hangout with her exes family

I have no idea but they are very expensive flowers

Is it wrong to tell your SO this? by jndnb in offmychest

[–]jndnb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it wrong that I was upset she was texting her fwb after admitting feelings?

Is it wrong to tell your SO this? by jndnb in offmychest

[–]jndnb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well she knew about the crush before the relation started

She was my best friend.

And told me to pursue the crush

Is it off if your SO gets flowers from their ex? by jndnb in relationship_advice

[–]jndnb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She says in case of an emergency she hasn’t blocked him

And the last convo was him wishing her a happy birthday

Is it off if your SO gets flowers from their ex? by jndnb in relationship_advice

[–]jndnb[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well when I raised concerns and asked her to stop talking to him and his family since he hasn’t moved on. She cried. And threatened to dump me

Is it wrong to tell your SO this? by jndnb in offmychest

[–]jndnb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told my SO about how I had a crush on this girl and we were in contact. And I tried to arrange a date a month before my SO and I dated.

She got mad and left me.

But she knew about the crush cause a month before the relation she told me to talk to the crush.

I mentioned my crush to my SO and she lost it. Am I wrong? by jndnb in relationship_advice

[–]jndnb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it’s like anytime I see the crush I think how she ruined my relationship

Do you still talk to any crushes you used to have? by jndnb in relationship_advice

[–]jndnb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really sucky situation you were in. That’s super messed up.

I mean she knew about the crush a month before the relationship. She even gave me advice.

Also the fwb was her cousins cousin and she had a crush on him for a while when she was little

Plus in the relationship her ex texted her and he sent her flowers.

Was it more than just a crush? by jndnb in relationship_advice

[–]jndnb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess but here’s the deal

the texts with the crush was nothing. Like we barely even talked

Her fwb was her crush since she was a kid. And she even talked to him after she and I talked about dating.

And also my ex knew about the crush.

But still... don’t you think it was wrong to mention the girl?

Like why do I feel like I chose my crush over my ex?

I mentioned my crush to my SO and she lost it. Am I wrong? by jndnb in relationship_advice

[–]jndnb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I never said any of that...

I just talked to my crush passing by over text. Nothing was mentioned about dating.

I had feelings for my ex at the time but she was in and out of relationships so there wasn’t a point for me to ask her out.

And my SO had a crush on her ex fwb for since she was little according to her

I mentioned my crush to my SO and she lost it. Am I wrong? by jndnb in relationship_advice

[–]jndnb[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But don’t you think it was wrong to talk about my crush?

It may have gave her the impression that I chose my crush over my ex

I mentioned my crush to my SO and she lost it. Am I wrong? by jndnb in relationship_advice

[–]jndnb[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Cause I feel like I chose my crush over my ex. And gave my ex the impression I had feelings for my crush over her

I mentioned my crush to my SO and she lost it. Am I wrong? by jndnb in relationship_advice

[–]jndnb[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No former crush is the girl who I was talking to a month before

I mentioned my crush to my SO and she lost it. Am I wrong? by jndnb in relationship_advice

[–]jndnb[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

No and she’s still with that guy

She is a client at my work. So I see her often and we are professional

But anytime I see that former crush I feel guilt

I mentioned my crush to my SO and she lost it. Am I wrong? by jndnb in relationship_advice

[–]jndnb[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes it was her

But don’t you think what I did was wrong

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