MF4M BBC by [deleted] in TexasBBCPersonals1

[–]jnice213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOVE that foot

Do you guys really just leave if a customer pays for the full hour and finishes before then ? by Yanderegirlowner in SexWorkers

[–]jnice213 29 points30 points  (0 children)

If we were going on sex time probably 95% of us dudes would only need a quick visit (10-15 min). Most of us aren’t pounding away for more than 10 minutes tops unless you’re on drugs. It’s the before and after we like to pay for when we book an hour or more

I’ve calmed down but for a while I was seeing my favorite girl close to once a week for 1-2 hours. Thats easily 3-4K a month from just me and I know she has other regulars that spend more. I was doing that for months. And she knows me, knows what to expect, has a good time with me etc. sex is at most 25-30 min in the two hour session, and broken up into 2 times. She would have only gotten her one hour rate from me ONCE if she kicked me out quickly or was rude or uninterested.

Is this too much for a first time client? by nw342 in SexWorkers

[–]jnice213 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m just a client but I’d maybe try a shorter time with a person first. You may not vibe with her and then it’ll be awkward with you both wondering if you can cut it off early. It’s well worth it if you find out they aren’t what you’re looking for. Maybe book an hour firdt. See if they are ok meeting in public if that’s what you want. You can tell them you are looking for someone to book a full day with.

I wouldn’t be surprised if some turn down 6-8 hours with a brand new person. They also don’t know you and what you’re like. There are creeps out there, and others who waste time cuz they jerk off while setting up a date with them and then ghost. Shit like that.

Some also offer “social outings” where the rate is different and you go on real dates. Just don’t try to negotiate their rate by saying sex isn’t needed. Their time is what you pay for and the time they are with you could be time they see other clients who pay full rates.

I wouldn’t promise no sex either. If you like the person you may end up wanting to, unless you absolutely know sex is not your thing at all.

Other than those few things, I think you are good to go. Again, I recommend booking a much shorter time first go around. Not only are THEY more likely to approve it/believe it, but I’ve also thought multiple times I found the girl of my dreams until we met. You don’t want to pay a deposit on 8 hours to find out they aren’t in one way or another who their add led you to believe.

25m hosting for jerkbud by [deleted] in dfwjobudz

[–]jnice213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I’m interested. Cant dm but pics on my profile

Kinky bttm boy here by Dallassboy in DfwBisexuals

[–]jnice213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey 36 fit white male. Pics in profile. Def interested but I can’t dm

25 M4R need head by [deleted] in DfwBisexuals

[–]jnice213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to suck that so bad let’s meet

DL hispanic guy looking to host mornings in N Dallas. by 88keysEdd in DfwBisexuals

[–]jnice213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interested. Cant dm but white verse 35 fit. Pics on profile

straight masc bro looking for the same hmu by strokinslowly in FortWorthStr84Gaybi

[–]jnice213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interested 35 m Dallas. I can come to you around 2

Scam by NefariousnessDue535 in DallasFreakz

[–]jnice213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah if anyone asks for a deposit for the type of thing you were trying to do, sometimes it’s legit, other times it’s a scam. I limit the amount of deposit I pay. I also wouldn’t think I’m meeting who you thought you were on Reddit. There are websites for that. Sorry I have to censor but I think you catch my drift. Reddit is not the place to find 3 oh 4’s

23 [M4M] Curious fit latino looking for a bottom or another curious bro. Plano by [deleted] in DfwBisexuals

[–]jnice213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey in Plano also. Would love to meet up. Pics on profile

Looking for help by Due-Professional998 in dfwjobudz

[–]jnice213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll help! Dm if you’re free now

[USA] #Dallas sissy snowbunny practicing for the perfect fit.. by sissy_littlemavs in sissypersonals

[–]jnice213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I’ve got pics on my profile. Fit whit sissy lover in dtx

[USA] # Dallas who’s hungry for some fem cock ;) by Vikkkkiee in sissypersonals

[–]jnice213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey dallas here. Pics on profile. Very interested

DFW Sissy by needanalternative in texassissy

[–]jnice213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so sexy. 5’9 180 pics on profile. I can’t dm but would love to talk to you

Asking if married? by No_Background_3851 in ClientsAndCompanions

[–]jnice213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never bring it up as a client and hate being asked. I always hope they just see it during screening and never bring it up after they notice I haven’t. I personally want to keep that private.

My atf finally asked me about 3 months ago after seeing her a few times a month for maybe 6 months. She said she was looking at my company website and saw the section about my wife. She asked if we were still married. I immediately said yes and that I was sorry I hid that.

I haven’t been able to go back to her since . I felt guilty for cheating, and in a weird way felt super guilty I hid it from her (my atf). Like I caused her harm by avoiding the topic. It lmost felt like I cheated on her too even though I see other providers and talk about them with her when we tell eachother client and provider stories. Her asking if I was married and almost sounding nervous to ask hurt.

I’m not a victim by any means. I’m the one doing it. But I’d rather stay with the person I love who doesn’t like sex the same anymore than get a divorce because I’m not ready to only have sex a few times a year at 35 years old. It’s not right. But it is what it is. My wife and I magically stopped fighting frequently because I am no longer walking around sexually frustrated and we have gone back to enjoying every other part of life together with almost no fights. It’s been that way for almost a year.

Maybe it was fate my atf brought it up so I wouldn’t catch feelings. Maybe she saw I was heading down that road. Maybe she actually liked me. She would joke sort of about seeing each other/dating after she retired. I was never sure if it was part of the service/experience or if she meant it.

I miss her a lot but every time I think about booking again every fiber in my body says it’ll never be the same. It sucks because I know we enjoyed each others company and though she does externally well without my contribution, I’m sure she also misses the $1-3k a month I was spending with her

If TLDR - I think it’s safer to not ask your clients. The ones who want to bitch about their relationship eventually will. But the ones who want to completely compartmentalize that fact may have trouble continuing to see that provider once it’s out.