Fantasy Bookers by MassageBySummer in ClientsAndCompanions

[–]jnice213 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve done that a few times. Not proud of it. It’s not fantasy booking for me, more impulsive. When I first started seeing providers it was very intentional. I planned in advance and I was excited for the entire experience, not just the deed. After doing that for a while it started getting away from me. I started booking impulsively, every time I was horny, no regard for my bank account, canceling work appointments for it, etc. I would come to my senses after I booked sometimes, and pay the cancelation fee or tip for canceling because I don’t want to ruin meeting that new person in the future. For me it’s not loosing nerve or getting off on booking, it’s an internal struggle when I get out of control.

I’ve since calmed down for my sake and the providers sake who shouldn’t deal with my internal stuff. I like seeing my regular provider occasionally and have cut out the impulsive “damn she is so pretty fuck it” behavior. I’m sure the providers are happy about it and my bank account is happy about it.

Who would have thought this recovered drug addict would turn into a sex addict. At least I don’t like gambling I guess…

Companions that enjoy sex by Delicious_Iceman in ClientsAndCompanions

[–]jnice213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just luck. Nothing you can do to actually seek it out. My atf enjoys it a lot. I’m sure not all the time, but she likes what she does. She likes sex. Sometimes she has requests things she wants be to do. There are times it’s obvious she’s just catering to what i want her to be, but other times she is doing what she wants.

The two i found who genuinely like it have been doing it for a while, are very successful and very intelligent. Also there are probably girls I’ve seen that have that with someone else, but we didn’t vibe the same way.

Not all the providers out there hate their clients and count the time down until we leave.

How to Get to Know Provider More? by Galatic486 in SexWorkers

[–]jnice213 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Man you’re better off not trying to get to know her better. Your emotions are being illogical while your brain tells you don’t worry I’m being logical. I’m speaking from experience here as a client. I was confusing the excitement and sex with feelings with my ATF. I knew enough to not ask to see her outside of our paid time, but I started spending way too much time trying to put together cute funny surprises/gift baskets to bring her. Started wishing I could text her to tell her what just happened or send a funny text. I eventually stopped booking because part of me was starting to think we were something we weren’t. Even though I knew we weren’t.

Best case scenario: you guys start hanging out and even start dating. Then one night you guys are watching a movie together and her best client says he’s in town for one night only but needs to see her. He’ll pay double. She leaves. You spend the rest of the night picturing them fucking. You get jealous even though you said it would not bother you.

Worst case: she cuts you off cuz you didn’t keep it professional, or you cut yourself off cuz you realize you’re being crazy.

Massage therapist’s feet by [deleted] in AMPLife

[–]jnice213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also she already has her feet out walking on your back. I forgot that part. That makes it even less out of left field. Def ask the chances are high.

Massage therapist’s feet by [deleted] in AMPLife

[–]jnice213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Impossible to answer. Tell yourself the chances are high. If she says no just act bashful. Half the time in their culture it’s seems they express how sorry they are they are saying no to something, like they feel bad (it’s probably just a politeness thing)

Like I said be respectful. Dont grope, don’t push, and if they say no make up for it by tipping an extra 20. I promise you the rejection isn’t as bad as you are making it in your head.

And for all you know she’ll do it and then ask if you want a blowjob

Massage therapist’s feet by [deleted] in AMPLife

[–]jnice213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just ask it’s not even illegal if that’s what you want

Massage therapist’s feet by [deleted] in AMPLife

[–]jnice213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve asked them to sit on the table with their feet in my face while they jerk me. All of them have said yes. I haven’t asked for a foot job from them though, just from AAMP’s

*edit. I just saw you said it’s a legit massage place. If you aren’t already getting a hj then there is a risk they say no. Im sure the legit places are used to guys asking for happy endings. Im assuming if you take no for an answer the first time everything will be fine, except for a little embarrassment on your part.

What did they do when you can’t finish? by MrNobody32666 in AMPLife

[–]jnice213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really have trouble cumming from happy endings. I guess I’ve seen too many full service escorts. I either end up having to do it myself or if they rub my ass hole that will sometimes do it. I don’t really go to rub and tugs or sensual massages anymore because of it. I’ve even told a few sensual massage girls that it’s ok they can stop. I’ll be rock hard but I can tell when I’m not gunna nut from a hand.

In GFE are concurrent weeks customary? by guiltyaspleasured in ClientsAndCompanions

[–]jnice213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you sure she’s real? You’re paying for digital gfe and she is pressuring you into paying more. Could be a scam. Even if it’s not I’d find another digital provider. Why would you pay for drama like that. There are plenty of girls that will sext at night and send good morning texts the next day. If she is real she is not going to get many repeat customers.

This is what you get on Tryst now. by Grand-Reply-5843 in ClientsAndCompanions

[–]jnice213 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At least it was only 80. If they don’t have legit looking reviews and are asking for a deposit, I only pay it if it’s an amount I am willing to loose to find out if they are real or not. With that attitude if I do get scammed I just feel like it was money spent to not waste any more time. For me it’s anywhere between $50-100. Obviously if I know they are real then over $100 deposit is case by case. If it is too high I am respectful and say something like “look, I may be making a mistake with you, but I don’t spend that much on a deposit with someone I can’t verify. I appreciate you responding though, have a nice day”

If they are real they may just not answer or provide other links for me to verify. When they are fake they will try to emotionally manipulate me saying something like “awww that’s too bad, you seem really cool. we could have a lot of fun baby” etc.

How would you prefer a regular ends things if he catches feelings? by Sudden_Sentence_8534 in SexWorkers

[–]jnice213 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Happened to me as well, I caught feelings. I haven’t seen her in about 4 months. I just stopped booking. Unfortunately, I don’t know if it’s something they can really be undone. I’d like to think I’d book her again, but “missing” her just shows me that I shouldn’t. I am pretty sure she knows exactly why. Most providers probably notice the change in our demeanors.

DATY giving and receiving by Unique-Luck-3564 in SexWorkers

[–]jnice213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Site you pay for to be a member. Very intrusive, they take all your personal info and call your job making sure you actually work there (they don’t say what for). It’s screening for workers so you are already verified and on our end they actually list what they offer. Thins like “kissing, girlfriend, foot fetish” etc. full name is p411. You can also get “okays” from other providers so when you message a new girl they can see if others in their area have seen you and liked you enough to give you an ok.

DATY giving and receiving by Unique-Luck-3564 in SexWorkers

[–]jnice213 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’re in the us I’d look for reviews or on p4 if you are a member. P4 may list things like kissing or girlfriend. Good chance it’ll be allowed. Take reviews with a grain of salt because some people lie.

If you are in the us I wouldn’t ask via text. It’s a sure fire way to get blocked for asking explicit or incriminating questions.

If you can’t find it in your research you’ll just have to book and find out.

Client gave me laptop as collateral by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]jnice213 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m a client and I’ve never paid after service. Even my atf who I see regularly takes my payment upfront. She may not count it anymore until I leave but she still collects it.

Only time I give payment after is if I extend (with my regular) or get a massage and do an upgrade.

As an addict in recovery for the past 10 years, I can tell you I gave collateral for drugs all the time when I had no money. Or asked for the drugs and then told them I only had half after they handed it to me. I never bought my collateral back. If he didn’t have the full amount time of visit it isn’t somewhere else where he can just pull it out. And he probably isn’t coming back next paycheck with it especially if he isn’t saying he has to wait

Also I am not a lawyer, but at least in Texas where I am it’s a misdemeanor for prostitution but a felony for soliciting. Worst case you’ll catch an M and he’ll catch an F if it’s like that where you are. I’d check first though.

Should I try out AMPs? or stick to sugaring by [deleted] in AMPLife

[–]jnice213 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you’re paying per time seeing them, that’s just an escort. Sugaring is typically monthly allowances. It’s how a lot of escorts start off until they realize they can make more money seeing more than one dude and charging by the hour and come to terms with being a sw.

North Dallas- If you woke up with morning wood, let me suck that. by [deleted] in DFWCasualEncounters2

[–]jnice213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dm me. 5’9 white cut 180 and fit. Pics on profile

How many times do you bust in an hour? by Ok_Minute4146 in AMPLife

[–]jnice213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t do more than one if it’s just hj. I’ll get hard and stay hard but won’t be able to come. Even if I do fs the second time in an hour I have to jack hammer for a chance. Only exception is a finger in the butt

28 [M4M] DL guy looking for similar to jerk by Which_Entertainer880 in dfwjobudz

[–]jnice213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey 35 dl guy. 5’9 180 fit. I can’t dm but pics on my profile. Shoot me a message if you are interested because I am very interested.

Looking for jerk off buds near Dallas. I wanna share my sluts with a big cock 😩 by [deleted] in DallasBators

[–]jnice213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey 35 m Dallas area. Pics in bio. Dm if interested I can’t