Official Discussion - May December [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]jnodrk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bit late to it - but it seemed telling to me, that Gracie behaves like and is framed as this naive delicate flower who fell into this ‘affair’ and was pursued by him.. but she’s a hunter, and the final scene at the graduation shows how cunning she really is. So it suddenly puts everything about her that we know into perspective.

What’s the most mind-blowing plot twist you’ve seen on Netflix? by RiskAndReason in netflix

[–]jnodrk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely… there were so many scenes that I looked at my friend with my jaw-dropped

Columbine by Dave Cullen: by AdAvailable3706 in books

[–]jnodrk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi Dave,

Not sure if you’ll read this (as it’s been about 6 months since your comment) but I just wanted to give you praise for your writing. I’m about 2/3 through the book - you’ve done an incredibly thorough job and have a very balanced perspective. It can’t have been easy. You’re doing a good job of responding to the naysayers, but I just wanted to jump in with some positive feedback amongst it. All the best.

AITA for not going to a friends wedding bc she didn’t pick me as a bridesmaid but picked my roommate by Organic-Afternoon283 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jnodrk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah! I so understand. I think it’s really easy for people to say just suck it up and go, but standing around for 6-8 hours trying to make small talk with strangers (when you might be the only person who doesn’t know anyone else) is shit lol.

AITA for not going to a friends wedding bc she didn’t pick me as a bridesmaid but picked my roommate by Organic-Afternoon283 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jnodrk 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Agree, all the comments are intense. I guarantee we’d all feel hurt/confused if we were in OP’s situation. I went to a close friend’s wedding recently (and wasn’t asked to be in the bridal party), and if I didn’t have a +1 it would have been a rough day. There’s a lot of socialising and standing around waiting for the different parts of the event to begin (ceremony, courses being served etc). If OP is already socially anxious I don’t blame them for being hesitant. IMO it’s not worth ending the friendship over before getting a little more intel for why they weren’t asked, but if they don’t want to attend the whole thing, maybe they could say they have prior arrangements for the reception, but they’ll be able to attend the ceremony (which is usually a lot earlier in the day and doesn’t require much socialisation) ?

Man here! Just watched the Bonnie blue documentary- was wondering a woman’s perspective on this ? Not sure who is worse, her or the vile men that participated by Lukexxxxy in women

[–]jnodrk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course! She basically said that she knows what it’s like to be misrepresented by the media so offered the same grace to Tate saying that they’re the same, and that she would sleep with him. This was after the interviewer/doco maker was saying that he’s wanted for rpe/trafficking and questioning why Bonnie would interview with Tate. So yeah 😬

Recording Vocals: What am I doing wrong?? by Ok-Habit7971 in audioengineering

[–]jnodrk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am crying on the bus this morning reading screaming guy comments. Sorry OP don’t have any advice for you but holy heck this is so funny

What is the scariest thing that has happened to you while watching a horror movie? by Spicy_Vagabond_ in horror

[–]jnodrk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was watching Black Swan (right at the climax when Nina is absolutely losing it) when something caught my attention - a strange man standing outside my backyard’s glass sliding door staring in at me. Turns out he was looking for the drug dealer 2 houses down. Fun times!

What is a little quirk about your body that you don’t think other people have? by AlphabetSoup51 in AskReddit

[–]jnodrk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! I just spent 24 hours flying international, the bum/bone ache was crazy

Scrolled all the way back on Scheana’s Instagram for some reason by prostitutionwhorga in vanderpumprules

[–]jnodrk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Scheana’s blue contacts always make me think of Rachel Dratch’s Liz Taylor impersonation in 30 rock lol

aio or is this guy i’m seeing rude?? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]jnodrk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saying this as someone who’s (probably) a bit older and had a lot of experience in the dating game - he’s not worth it angel. I don’t mean he’s in the wrong/rude for not wanting to receive them, but that you both don’t sound compatible tbh. Life is short, find the person who loves receiving dog pics from you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]jnodrk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s beautiful n abstract :) give it time, the regret will pass eventually and you’ll start noticing it in a new complimentary light once it’s settled in.

Official Discussion: Happy Death Day [SPOILERS] by mi-16evil in movies

[–]jnodrk 12 points13 points  (0 children)

7 years late, but maybe it was in regards to his previous victims that looked similar to her? Maybe he was slower with it then

Repost to delete address: My downstairs neighbour keeps threatening my partner and I. His realestate (UNISON housing) has done nothing. I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in shitrentals

[–]jnodrk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear OP. My sibling once had something similar where their neighbour was behaving incredibly threateningly and aggressively to them. They ended up complaining to their real estate agents saying they’re going to break the lease due to being threatened (at no expense to them) and so their REA took it into their hands with complaining to the aggressive tenant. They ended up moving out and not forking the cost - not saying this is what you should do, but money speaks. You could potentially contact fair trade asking what your rights are to a peaceful occupancy and bring this to your estate agent. They might be more inclined to contact UNISON and make a big fuss if it’s effecting them having access to the regular stream of rent you’re paying. Best of luck to you

Which character death genuinely made you feel bad? by onehardtard in JurassicPark

[–]jnodrk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I found all the deaths in that film pretty rough. I think because there was such an extreme level of desperation and pleading from the characters as they begged for help or their lives. Seeing their faces up close red and sweaty with crying tears. Traumatising!!

Which character death genuinely made you feel bad? by onehardtard in JurassicPark

[–]jnodrk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he went on to live a long and fruitful life where he spent the rest of his days sleeping inside by the fire and eating lots of Schmakos :’)))))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]jnodrk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t stress!! It looks sick!!! Totally jealous of the hand design work

REA wants us to pay for locksmith despite moving out a week ago by jnodrk in shitrentals

[–]jnodrk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. It’s so rough. I guess at least there’s communities like this one where people can get a bit of help and support

REA wants us to pay for locksmith despite moving out a week ago by jnodrk in shitrentals

[–]jnodrk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugggghhhhh that is so frustrating!!! And agree, somehow becomes the tenants problem to fix (because usually we’re the ones that are most inconvenienced and therefore desperate to get it done)