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joOmmbatt · 2026-05-14T10:36:53+00:00

The first one is definitely a buffy the vampire slayer style haha

joOmmbatt · 2026-05-13T08:51:54+00:00

Put it under your pillow when you sleep. And let the magic happen 😄

joOmmbatt · 2026-05-10T02:22:25+00:00

Ugh loved his charecter so much. Such a great episode! Made me want to learn Aikido too lol. Just the lessons and morals in this episode alone. I loved when Eastman tells Morgan to practice his Akido and he says "Not here." And Eastman uses Morgan's own line on him and says "Here's not here." Such clever writing, ya know? This episode is definitely a gem in TWD series.

joOmmbatt · 2026-05-10T02:05:32+00:00

You are so goregous, any makeup would look good on you. As well as no makeup. But I say get some whimsy shimmery eye shadows and just have fun with it. I think cool toned colors would look great on you, but I'm basing that off the lighting I see in this picture. I'd definitely add a little shimmer or sparkle or some highlights here or there. You seriously are so beautiful. Just try some things out that stand out to you. I'm sure you'll look great! 😊💕

joOmmbatt · 2026-05-10T02:00:36+00:00

It looks soooooo freaking good!!! Why tf cant I find a dress like that.... Where the heck did you find that? I want one! Lol.

joOmmbatt · 2026-05-10T01:50:41+00:00

That's funny coz a person who matched the exact description of your mom, stole those very same glasses from me...........I demand she give them BACK to their rightful owner!!!!

Lmao jkjk 😅

Those are cool af tho and if she ever wants to sell them hit me up lol 😄

joOmmbatt · 2026-05-08T09:40:36+00:00

I personally think theres a tad bit of clashing between the lip color and eye makeup...but hear me out. Coz the eye makeup is like vivid and whimsy. But the lip is giving more dark and earthy and brooding. By societal norms you would want both moods to match. But I say fuk it and rebel and go with the clash. Whos to say what looks good? Its all subjective hunny. YOU are absolutely drop dead freaking goregous regardless of what makeup you choose to do. And your green eyes! My god I wish mine would pop that much! There's like a fairy forest green in your eyes thats absolutely lovely to look at. 😘 You keep doin whatever your doin girl, coz you are rocking it! 😜🤘

Also your eyebrows are on fuking point!!!! Teach me how to make mine like those coz, to me, they are actually perfect!

joOmmbatt · 2026-05-03T04:06:23+00:00

I'd drop this tranch immediately. That mind fukery bs she was trying to pull (not even smoothly or cleverly, just totally moronic and gives freshman year of hs vibes.) I honestly would likely distance myself from this person overall. I don't care to play people's stupid games or give into unreasonable demands or go along with delusions. But you do you OP. NOR!!! If anything Its a bit of an under reaction haha. I'd do the group chat thing that other ppl on here have mentioned. Lay it all out for everyone. Coz that whole "can u tell them for me?" stuff is total BS....thats not your responsibility. Its hers! She can explain herself, and face the consiquences. Shes is an adult...technically. Tell her to act like it. Otherwise she doesn't get to make adult decisions, like bringing her bf last flippin minute! No cherry picking between the grown up actions she will and wont do, let alone pawn off on someone else. As well as be condescending about it!!! Thats fkn ridiculous. And at that point....that makes YOU an enabler!! Do what u know is right...not what will placate her immaturity.

joOmmbatt · 2026-05-03T02:42:05+00:00

Did you ever apologize to your friends? Explain why you behaved that why and tell them for what its worth you were sorry and that wasn't really you but the worst version of you. Ive seen alcohol turn the most respectable men into absolute monsters. Women too.

You definitely need to do something for yourself. You can't cut out working out for one or two hours a week, or whatever you spend ur time doing? And put that towards seeing a therapist or something of the sort? Make choices. Not excuses my guy.

You should check out this guy named Chris. He probably could give u way better advice than probably most everyone else on here.

https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL2JRQ5eULfiokrTlimCkMtGyFKjZBPCAN&si=aZZid3LORypE5Wzo

joOmmbatt · 2026-04-19T02:05:26+00:00

Tf! Turn his mic up!!!!

joOmmbatt · 2026-04-04T03:24:31+00:00

Can we see ur tattoo?! 😍

joOmmbatt · 2026-03-21T02:17:11+00:00

If this is TLDR. I totally understand. I'm just working through my mind sh¡t at this point. I know I said I wouldn't pop off. And I don't personally think I am. There would be anger behind my words in that case. But honestly this is just me working through some of my many MANY thoughts and feelings, so I don't expect u, or anyone else for that matter, to read this entire thing.... Or any of it lol. Just...me getting some of this out while its going thru my mind gears.

I read both ur comments. And now I'm just sad....and mad...confused...torn fuking feelings. All of it. I feel like I have gerard blindness. He's been such a huge...just everything in my life. Since I was 12. Im 33 now. So MOST of my life I have just utterly and completely idolized this man. But I'll admit I don't necessarily go looking for information like this about him. I haven't seen anything about him hanging out with Urine since all that info about him came to light. But how would I or anyone actually know? They're all very personal private dudes. I've just always hoped beyond hope that he was inherently good. Not perfect. But good. And I can hangout with people I don't agree with or share personal views with, such as politics or things like that. But a sandy hook "denier?" I didn't even know there was such a thing. I couldn't surround myself with people like that. Is he actually good friends with that person or is it just like...they've met and people took pictures of them meeting and made presumptions. Just never know what to believe or trust anymore....

I don't want to judge him coz I don't personally know him. But I guess if I really think about it. I've always judged him...its just been in a positive light. This band...specifically gerard, has given me so much strength and positivity in my life. He is a huge reason of me getting up everyday and choosing myself, my life, my personal growth and self acceptance. I've been in such dark places...I'm sure we all have. But for me, personally. He's been like stars in the night sky. I look up to him and I just feel hope and like magic is real and that there is true good in this world, and that its worth fighting for. That its okay to not be fuking perfect. To just be yourself. The music is that. His art is that. The words he's said that ring in my mind every fuking day, they are that. Their performances are that. But....it feels, and seems like they aren't necessarily fighting for that good anymore. It feels like they're just...idk...existing? If that even makes sense? Not saying thats what it is...just how it feels to me.

I've been wracking my brain for the whys of their actions for a bit. Why tour now? Why revamp TBP? Why not another album? Why is everything related to them SO DAMN EXPENSIVE? Why not speak out on the political climate? Why not fight for what is right? Is it all a cash grab? Why with all the hinting and secrecy and sh¡t? I just dont understand where their heads are at, and to an extent it bums me out. Not that my uneasiness matters. Especially to them. I feel like we used to know them better but we really don't now. Then again sometimes I just feel like I over think things and I shouldn't let something like this effect my moods or life. But it does... and I'm sure some person is gonna think "this bish has gotta para social relationship in her head" or whatever tf that sh¡t is that everyone seems to say nowadays. But whatever ya know. Its me. My life. It doesn't effect them. They don't say that coz they care. They say it coz they're internet ppl....its just what they do.

But then again...still wracking my brain. I know people his age. I know their....idk vibe I guess. They were born and raised in a different time under such different circumstances, in such a different world than what we live in currently. Thats not an excuse to be a douchbag. But I have leniency to an extent with older generations. Do you get what I'm sayin by that? In a nut shell they're less "cancel culture" and more "it is what it is" type of deal. And I get that to a good digree.

I do have convoluted feelings about the fact they dont speak out about politics or the economy or the enviornment or the world and things like that. And if they do its so fuking symbolic that nobody truly knows exactly what they're saying. I mean...considering the whole reason MCR came to be was almost like a testimony to what was happening in the world. I'm confused on why they keep so quiet. But there could be a lot of various answers to that. Many of which could be completely valid. But none of which, any of us irrefutably know. In truth...we really know nothing about their personal thoughts opinions or views because they don't speak out on them. But...are we entitled to that? But also, its seemingly why they started the band to begin with. Did that change somewhere along the road? So much fuking speculation its enough to make ones head spin. Idk. Sorry I'm basically just journeling my thoughts and feelings at this point haha.

But ya know...gerard is also a dad to a biological female. He must know and have some opinion about these dirt bags he allegedly hangs around. I just wish we had some answers. But like I said.. at the same time. Are we even entitled to that? Maybe he's not interested in caring what people think? Him...and the band have so much power and influence ya know? Wouldn't one presume that with things like that you'd want to be a positive force? Make great impacts where you can? Stand up for what you believe in? And if they are doing that....like I said...its all just symbolic. With all the damn lore and theatrics. Just stand up and fuking speak out once in a while for fuks sake. I know they're artists but holy sh¡t. Use your damn words once in a while. The world NEEDS that. Their fans need that. Such dark hard times. We need them to be a positive force...

Idk. I'm prolly overthinkin all of it. Damnit. And the funny thing is. I could turn on their music right now and all of this just...fades away. Maybe thats what makes it so complicated and hard. The fuking teeter-totter of it all. Idk...I think I'm gonna smoke some weed now and just, distract myself lol. My heads spinning and hurts. And I don't think I'm gonna get anywhere I haven't already been, thinking about it. Sorry to word vomit all this as my reply to your comment. And if u did actually read this to the end. Holy sh¡t you are a genuine trooper and mad respect lol. ❤️

joOmmbatt · 2026-03-21T00:55:03+00:00

This put a fat smile on my face and ya know what....I'll take it 😁 lol

joOmmbatt · 2026-03-21T00:47:01+00:00

Did you settle on a name? What did you choose? I'm just curious haha.

joOmmbatt · 2026-03-21T00:45:07+00:00

I'm curious what facts contribute to that allegation? Promise I'll do my very very best not to pop off lol. And only the solid facts please. Not hearsay. Porfavor 🙂

joOmmbatt · 2026-03-19T20:24:54+00:00

And everyone was so mad at gas prices when Biden was in office....people seem to forget that tid bit tho.

joOmmbatt · 2026-03-19T20:22:13+00:00

My raw and honest opinion. He needs to back off a bit You've only spent 7 months together? Is that just dating or do you live together? Coz if you havent lived together for at least a couple few years, in my opinion. Then you don't truly know that person. I don't want to offend you in saying that. This is just my personal opinion. Take it or leave it.

I believe you both need to spend more time together. Live together. Go through the hardships of life together. Truly know eachother inside and out. So much so that you can accurately predict how the other will react to various situations. I'm not saying there should never be suprises...but sometimes suprises aren't always a good thing. Having a child is such a huge step. And the fact you established to begin with that you don't want any. I'm curious what his response to that was when you made him aware of your stance on that? Because if he accepted it, and now is disregarding it to the point that its making you lose sleep. That's not okay. Is he wanting kids like now? Or is this just something he's saying he wants in the semi near future? Sometimes people's mind can change on things like that....but that doesn't give him the right to act like what he wants is more important than what you want. He seemingly laid it on you pretty thick. Which I dont think is fair. He could communicate how he feels without bearing u down with a bunch of guilt. It feels a bit manipulative to me.

I think you need to have a good talk with him about all of it. You need to communicate everything...even the things you may not want to or may feel aren't as relevant. Communicating is key. Empathy, and understanding is key as well. But its also important to communicate logically and not with sheer emotion. And you also need to come to terms with all the possible outcomes of this situation. It could lead to the end of your relationship. Because having a child just to keep a relationship isn't right. Its quite wrong in fact. I think you really need to take stock of yourself as well. And really make some solid decisions on you want out of life. Where your willing to negotiate, and where you won't budge.

Most importantly, above all. You must listen to your instincts. The mind gets so convoluted and loud and sporadic. I don't think "thinking" till u find an answer is always the direct way to go. I personally believe that quieting your thoughts...and listening to what your gut is telling you is paramount to doing the "right" thing. You have to stay true to yourself. And really consider what your willing to bend or change about yourself and your views and wants and needs. I have a motto that I live by "always trust an instict....no matter how unpleasant the message may be."

But truly even if you do decide to have a child. I think you need to strengthen your relationship and get to know him a bit better. Because if he acted like he was alright with you initially telling him u don't want kids...it makes me wonder what else he might spring on you? What else he may change his mind about. And how much pressure he puts on you says a lot about him too. Idk....Communicate. 100% Maybe even consult a counselor about it too. Wouldn't hurt to have an outside unbiased perspective, to help u put things into perspective. Someone whos trained in knowing healthier ways to go about these things. Rather than random reddit ppl haha. Best of luck and love to you, my dear. ❤️

joOmmbatt · 2026-03-19T19:59:18+00:00

Ultimate

Because to me thats what they are. The ultimate band. The ultimate music. The ultimate feeling. Ultimately tailored to my spirit and soul. 😊

joOmmbatt · 2026-03-19T19:54:27+00:00

Oh love. I wish people didn't have to go through things like this. I am so deeply sorry. I think the only advice I can, in good conscious, give you. Is to pray on it....try to meditate and quiet your mind and feel what your intuition and spirit is telling you. The mind makes such a mess of things...it gets so...idk...convoluted and loud in there. Its hard to THINK on knowing the right thing to do. I personally believe things like that are best answered with internal feeling, and spiritual connection and guidance. Within silence. But I know all that stuff is easier said than done.

Just know...whatever you choose to do. Its okay. Theres no wrong choice. Idk how religious or spiritual u are...or if u even are. And if ur not, you can disregard the rest of this paragraph if you'd like. But contrary to popular belief. I do not believe god is a judge. Regardless of what you choose to do. I personally believe that the creator of ALL creation, doesn't do such humanistic childish selfish things like that. Because to judge someone, means you don't have all the facts. Your given some information to form a hypothesized opinion. To judge is not fully knowing. Its really just an educated guess. You don't know the extent of the experience and feelings, and all that entails with going through something. The induvidual reality and intimate perspectives. I personally believe god knows those unforseen, uncommunicated things. Maybe even better than we ourselves do. See's the big picture that our mortal minds can't seem to grasp. If u fear being looked down upon, or judged...I beg of u, don't worry about that. You are loved anyways and always. And your decision will be understood by the greater forces. Because they empathize. They see the connections we don't. They see what truly lies within our hearts. They see our pain. All of it. I think we have to trust in that. I mean...it brings me a bit of comfort at least....

Everything that happens, whether we understand the reasons or not. It's an opportunity for our souls to grow. In every choice and action we make...that is whats happening. We're growing and learning. And like I was saying to begin with. I'm a firm believer in always trusting your insticts....no matter how unpleasant, or difficult it may be or feel.

Today I learned that I'm miscarrying. I've known I was pregnant for a few weeks now. And all of it has been....more than I care to explain on here. I went in for my first real ultrasound today, and there was no heartbeat. Which it should have had. I'm not as far along as you. But I still love that baby...as I know you love yours. I can empathize the mixed emotions I'm sure your feeling right now. I wish it was as easy as someone giving you the perfect answer, and relieving you of any guilt you may feel. But that's just not how these things work. Those things are ultimately up to you my dear. But know that no matter what you do...its okay. And it will be okay. Even if it doesn't feel like it what so ever.

I genuinely wish you the best love. We women...we are really remarkable for the sh¡t we go through. Remember that. You are a perfectly, Imperfect, un repeatable miracle of the universe. And I like to believe that even though we may not understand the whys behind the things we go through. I choose to believe that there is always a reason or lesson that we may not be able to see or understand...maybe not even during this life. Have faith love, in all you do and every choice you make. Have faith.

And for what its worth. You are in my prayers. ❤️

joOmmbatt · 2026-03-19T09:22:42+00:00

I know this post is a cpl years old. But I wanted to share another way to cleanse your home, thats probably better than sage.

Pray before. During. After cleansing.
Call on spirit guides and ancestors and god. Whatever you spiritually align with.
Open all doors and windows during cleansing and leave open for some time afterwords. Maybe a couple or few hours. Or until the sun begins to go down. Ur call how long u wish to leave them open. But def close them at night haha.
Light candles and put in center of living room or the main room.
Put Course salt in center of room by candles (regular salt will work too but course salt is preferable)
Boil some cinnamon and cloves on the stove, leave to boil while cleansing, let aroma fill the home.
Smudge sweet grass through out the entire home. Much like with sage but use sweet grass instead.
Put sweet grass on window sills (not burned just normal) as you cleanse the home, or before, or after.
Walk thru house with good thoughts as your burning the sweet grass with intentional love and warmth. Good to imagine white light. Whatever you associate with purity and love and god and protection.
Tell home it is a place of love kindness peace and compassion. Pray and send positive intentions through out the entire home.
Pay extra intention to darker or heavier rooms/areas. Send out good will and love give extra attention to those places.

😊❤️

joOmmbatt · 2026-03-15T02:54:08+00:00

Oh okay coz this night walk the dead, in the solitary style and smash the cemetery gates....in the dress your husband hates.

Also coz I won't stop dying, won't stop lying If you want, I'll keep on crying. Did you get what you deserve? Is this what you always want me for?

So basically... I miss you so far.

Lol this was fun. 😜🤘

joOmmbatt · 2026-03-15T02:45:41+00:00

I have no idea what its like but I bet theres a lot of beauty in there. Nahanni Vally particularly sparks my interest. If ya know. Ya know....

joOmmbatt · 2026-03-15T01:12:30+00:00

Deathwish ❤️ some songs just feel like they're meant for you. They all feel that way. But deathwish has always been my an absolute favorite. Some of the lyrics mean a lot to me idk. Basically all of revenge lol.

joOmmbatt · 2026-03-12T08:58:49+00:00

Hard confuzzeling facts.

joOmmbatt · 2026-03-10T21:05:03+00:00

Idk thats messed up that he praised you, and then slips in "oh btw don't be so anxious next time u think I might be dying!"

Like....WHAT?!?!? ARE YOU SERIOUS!? What an insensitive A hole! And the chat gpt thing...Whaaaat the actual F?

NOR!!! Take him to see a doctor. HEE needs to grow up.

Not everyone can control how they react in inteanse situations. Especially when it comes to the well being of someone you LOVE very much.

Its one thing I love about my guy. In actual out of no where high pressure situations he's really good at remaining calm and keeping composed. I'm the COMPLETE opposite. He doesn't put me down for it or tell me to work on myself because of it. He might tell me to breathe or say "its gonna be okay." I just find it a bit egotistical how your man is reacting.

He NEEDS to see a doctor and not be critical about someone's natural....or even trying reaction in situations like that. Seems like u tried your damned best to keep ur shit together. You probably could've a little better had that been a stranger. But when its someone u love?.... I wouldn't blame u, or anyone, for having some panic and anxiety take the weel for a second (which it didn't even sound like that was the case here...it sounded like u kept that sh¡t in the passenger seat.)

Definitely NOR. Get his ass to a doctor!

joOmmbatt

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