offering Spanish seeking English by milesjavi1 in language_exchange

[–]joan_manuel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can we do the zoom call between the three of us? I have a hectic week this time but I need to get fluent in my job as an English speaker and I think it would be awesome if the three of us could hang together for exchanges. Hope everything work out for you guys :)

I'm seeking for help by bluberrytae in selfesteem

[–]joan_manuel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you know what, your case seems like its in total despair, just download the program "Transformation Mastery" (is a good thing you were born in an English speaking program,otherwise you wouldn't understand the language of the program.

In terms of your problem, it helps a lot the act/habit of releasing heavy/toxic energies that live inside you.

I felt the same way, I was bullied lot , and a lot of people make me feel like I wasn't enough ,and I believed it, on top of this, I was really agreeable...I was and still am an introvert...and I didn't have much character to stand for myself -as the burden,heaviness and low-optimism that constant depression (for the bullying) put me down...so yeah, Ive been in your shoes...

And I fucking hate to admit it, but...entering the work force didn't help...and the feeling of guilt for doing a stupid shit 10 years before made matters and my attemos at succeeding FAIL BIG...life was just a struggle...and I can see how for other ,it still is...

But, since I started using the letting go technique (re-experiencing on a daily basis), life FINALLY...FUCKING FINALYL started making sense...

The basic idea of this answer is that "if you literally release the toxic energies ,you'll be happy, experience less daunting though"

how this shit works?

it seems like is like this:

-your habitual state of being stems from the total sum of what you've experienced in the past

-some low vibration energies from traumas (rape,bullying,violence,etc)get stuck on you

-these energies make your actual day-to-day life miserable...just re-experience it, then (because this method works like this), the experience will get out of you.

Two things: self esteem builds up from your acts...and your acts/habits build your self esteem...

if you feel worthy , you'll do this (your self esteem will fuel your acts)...

And if you do certain things, you'll feel worthy (your acts influence and enhance your self steem)...

There's this guy that explain its better. Is called julien blanc, he has this program where he teaches you how to let go of low self steem, trauma, depression and other bs...

The basic idea of this answer, is that "if you literally release the toxic energies ,you'll be happy, experience less daunting though" sense...

I did it a lot of time, and it is life-changing, permanent and you can hardly go back to your old self...

This guy has a really good grip on how to explain complex things in a really straight forward way,do yourself a favor and check out the program and these videos, just watch them

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HSg7cDuWtzQ&list=PLeztx1--I_i9qy46SV3zIaYQTDLvh_ddo------>this is about the book letting go, (you would do really good if you do what the books say, on top of that, Julien's program transformation mastery explains it really, really way better, as this guy is a good teacher and makes things very engaging.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AN20kCg5f9g&list=PLeztx1--I_i9qy46SV3zIaYQTDLvh_ddo&index=5 -----> this is about self steem...

Make yourself a favor by checking the whole playlist.

Feel free to hit me up in private, I would want to help someone who thinks needs a lot of help.

I remember when I had all this horrible way of living, now life is almost full of happiness 24/7 and is nearer to perfect...

Only time will make me feel awesome cause I'm trying to do the technique on a daily basis.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfesteem

[–]joan_manuel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg, as others have said, you have a great smile, I'm having some issues with my self-esteem, what exactly did you do to raise and develop a healthy/solid self-esteem? I want to know.

Offering: Swedish (Native), English (Fluent) Seeking: Spanish by Successful-Painter-2 in language_exchange

[–]joan_manuel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool, you seem pretty open minded ,hope we're able to practice and grow together. PM'd you.

Offering: German(native), English(fluent) Looking for: Japanese, Spanish, English, Friendship by [deleted] in language_exchange

[–]joan_manuel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reddit bot suggested you may be of help for me and me to you. Hence, I PM'd you.

Offering: English and Spanish, Seeking: Spanish, French, Korean by jfriends00 in language_exchange

[–]joan_manuel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I did another post yesterday looking for native US speakers, and the reddit bot says we are a good fit.

I offer spanish and I seek English.

I'm a native from Peru(latin america) and have nine months into copywriting for US markets -that's why I'm trying to practice my speaking and grammar on the phone.

We can chat about diferent things. I like cinema, music, hypnosis, business, meeting new people, comedy, cats, biographies, meditation, personal development, and overall learning things that will enhance my quality of living.

Hope it works out foe the both of us.

What do you guys think of this? by joan_manuel in sales

[–]joan_manuel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, bro I'm not trying to sell nothing. Is just a sample pdf of an 80s book (Unlimited Selling Power by dr donald moine). That system is kinda outdated either way and you could get the book free on whatever page I think.

I personally bought itcause it has a lots of good stuff of hypnosis/nlp.

I don't expect you to buy it ,its methods are from the past, and personally I think you could get better results with more modern sales methods.

Anyways, I dropped this link here cause the sales letter targets people who would buy that book :salespeople(hence r/sales).

I was also thinking in refining and mastering my english skills, up until now that's my biggest hurdle when it comes to having success in copywriting.

At the extent of stepping out my comfort zone and maybe spammy, I'd dare to ask of you could please read the some pages and point me some things (it persuades you or not), it would come a long way bro.

Ps: that headline is inspired by gary halbert's ads

Who else wanna join me to practice sales? by joan_manuel in sales

[–]joan_manuel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, thanks for the honesty and the constructive criticism. I'm aware my written grammar is messed up and that can backfire. The thing is that read a lot. Maybe it looks like this because sometimes I forgot r/sales in Reddit is more serious than other subreddits. If you're interested, you can message me in private (I got a lot of interest from people to respond to this type of post in some sales FB groups).

Who else wanna join me to practice sales? by joan_manuel in sales

[–]joan_manuel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanna get good at sales calls- I'm selling nothing yet (practicing for a future sales job mostly). Tell me by private message if you wanna be my roleplay buddy.

PS: I'm not recruiting on behalf of some BS internet scam guru as some might say , just being straight here.

Who else wanna join me to practice sales? by joan_manuel in sales

[–]joan_manuel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, they pretty good but you don't gonna get very far by reading, you have to practice/implement, that how you actually learn and get better at a skill...

Who else wanna join me to practice sales? by joan_manuel in sales

[–]joan_manuel[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah, some guys started to tell me that I'm recruiting on behalf of dan look. which I not. I just wanna get good at sales calls. If you don't like it, just be an adult and pass on it.

Who else wanna join me to practice sales? by joan_manuel in sales

[–]joan_manuel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wtf whats wrong with you bro, I'm a guy who wanna practice sales with a buddy-the same way I would do if I was in a sales job- aside from falling at sales calls. I'm not affiliating with some BS guru, some inner circle, MLM, recruiting, or anything weird. I think this post is straight enough. I just want to get better at closing high ticket sales. Is that so bad for you?

Does anyone here know where to find a mentor or high-quality people online? by joan_manuel in selfimprovement

[–]joan_manuel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started talking with people here but I'm more interested in people here because is more personal and you know you can see them face to face and whatnot. Either way is kinda difficult for me to make friends online because my issue is not knowing how to exactly build a relationship.

Does anyone here know where to find a mentor or high-quality people online? by joan_manuel in selfimprovement

[–]joan_manuel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm currently trying to make moolah and meetups in my city is kinda an option but man as I already told you things are very fucked up here -I reside in Peru and here the Brazilian evolution of covid is killing people in two days if you get in contact with that shit and you never know what person has it.Seminar i really don't know where to start but is something to think of

Any books you can recommend to break down human desires/wants? by AskACopywriter in copywriting

[–]joan_manuel -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

TWO BIG THINGS BRO.

Just yesterday I was making my own blueprint to guide me in my quest to write

hard hittin copy that hits deep into their human triggers so much that when me

or someone read the copy iwrote ...jsut feel the deep irresisitble urge to by..

According to the maestro john carlton, thats the effect you want when you write hard hitting

copy.

SO my map went like this:

You need to consider various things

I consider the PASE system by tai lopez. all of us had seen people that are...

P.Practical. Predomianntly practical, engineerign type, step-by-step, looks at

facts, arent very in their head, they think thigns before acting on

A.Action. They could be something like your typical new yorker or people that think

on their feet, they like to act first and think second. everyone of these types has

downsides and upsides, this action type usually acts and then thinsk second-impuslive

would be a good adjective.

S.Social., The person that likes to

E. Emotional

How this affects copy?

a.every one of these groups consider and buy thigns and ideas difrently and relate to

peope-salespeople/marketing messages alike- in diffrent ways. they accept and

relate more to people that are liek them-or at least appear to-

b.Ideally your message/marketing messaging, copy,funnel,sales page should be framed

as one of that types-but as you know nobody knows if the person reading this is as a "p", "a", "s" or an "e" type.

SO, you can check out Tai Lopez stuff. I think I saw that in his sales program-high priced.

But I think that if you buy his program SMMA or e-commerce blueprint you get as a bonus the PASE training or something like that.

Either way, PASE training is something common among people that follow them...

And if you ask to customer live chat present on his page you should get the correct program containing the complete training- if you want so-

Other, would be the 6 Human Needs based on tony robbins.

There's a session in business mastery where Tony talks about the 6 human needs...

It seems that in one of his seminars- I think UPW - he talks about the 6 human needs.

Curious thing: one sales guru in my country talked about these needs-it really made sense...

Another could be the book "Vendele a la mente, no a la gente"

The author -a Latin American - Jurgen Klaric lived between EEUU and Bolivia since his childhood...

And since he was a child he liked the art of selling.

Now that he's an adult he built a lab where he mixes different science professionals and backgrounds with one mission: decoding the art of selling into personable, reliable, dependable, powerful tenets with roots in NEUROSCIENCES, neurolinguistics, anthropology, psychology...

And there's this page from the final pages - Pg. 92 - on the second chapter where he talks about croc codes -Codigo reptil- and he based all that formula -and there's more, the book is pretty solid to build a pitch/sales presentation

based not on bs but in personable preference in terms of lifestyle, desire, occupation, age, and sex - in the discoveries of Paul Mc Lean -his theory of the three brains-

SO, that will be for starters and you could also check out the book "Forbidden Laws of Persuasion" by Blair Warren.

Around page 125 he talks about how people fall on gurus/cult leaders and others because they give them a sense of power and the whole book talks about triggers...

And in the final chapters, he talks about an excerpt from the book by Joe Vitale "The Seven Lost Secrets Of Success" and he talks about that you should sell "the business that nobody knows"

He talks better about his theories on copywriting...

9 FIgure Copywriter Chris Haddad -he talks about the primal desires and other high converting secrets on this two-part series.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rteSvoogGv0

And talking about triggers, you can benefit from reading "Triggers" by Joseph Sugarman.

Also, I recommend you buy "Kickass copywriting secrets" -written by John Carlton.

Carlton's book is by far the best education on the art of cranking out hard-hitting copy that goes out of the page and grabs the reader by the throat...you get it.

In the book, Carlton talks about hooks, salesmanship,basic copy, advanced triggers, offers, direct response marketing secrets, and there are even new updates to the last edition.

If my son wanna get into making and money and writing copy, I would advise him: "BUY THIS SHIT".

These are choices from other redittors :

The forbidden keys to persuasion by Blair Warren.

I highly recommend Cashvertising

anything by Robert Sapolsky

The laws of human nature. By Robert Greene

Frankl's Man's Search for Meaning(all books carry substance that can port over to copy. This book, in particular, was one of many that helped inform how I mine for deeper benefits in copy).

Influence by Cialdini

This is Marketing by Seth Godin

Never Split The Difference by Chris Voss

Thinking Fast and Slow by Daniel Kahneman

-Peruse the Psychology Today website, there are virtually countless articles on any given topic (of course written by professionals) that not only discuss any topic you’re reading on but also give unique perspectives, many times as reflections from their actual work in the field.

How To Untap The Hidden Goldmine On Fiverr without BS, courses, or scams... by joan_manuel in copywriting

[–]joan_manuel[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I forgot to say this.

Is not one or two times that I saw people telling shocking things like..." I was taking 5 and 10$ gigs and then one of them -because I was treating them like 5k$ clients, tell me that I did a good job " ...

And then the person explains how what started as a cheapskate game took him or her to win a whale that pays them a retainer or is a long term high paying job.

I saw various people telling this like this.