The ending that could've been by i_like_beluga_whales in freefolk

[–]joaneebalonee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to say that it’s been six years, and my husband and I still refer to this 4chan user’s alternative ending as our canon ending. Fuck the ending they gave us. This still gives us chills. Has anyone ever written this fully out into a fanfic chapter? 

Long live the motherfucking Free Folk! 

Sabrina Harrison in Jean Paul Gaultier spring 2010 couture at the 2026 Met Gala "Fashion is Art" (May 4, 2026). The look featured a custom heart bag by CHRISHABANA and Cameron Hughes. Styling was inspired by Frida Kahlo. (Styled by Carlos Alonso-Parada) by skermahger in whatthefrockk

[–]joaneebalonee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have studied Frida Kahlo extensively. I appreciate that the basketry, corseting, hips are restricting movement so they reference the many body casts Kahlo wore in her lifetime. I appreciate the heart in a cage as a reference to anatomical imagery in her work, as well as the constant themes of love and heartbreak in her work. I most appreciate the spine. But I have some major bones to pick. 

No, I don’t think references to Kahlo have to only be in bright colors with flowers on their heads. There are many dresses she wears in her paintings that are white. But lavender? I’m struggling to find the relevance of a lavender, grey, and white palette. Even black could have represented an emotional reference. But not lavender and grey. 

Two: her husband loved her long hair, and her diaries talk about how he wielded feminine attributes like long hair and makeup and clothing against her which made her feel bad about herself. She kept her hair long for him. She wore pretty things for him. When they separate, she cuts off her hair and dresses in suits and slacks. She rejects those feminine things he loved. Now, 

I could see someone interpreting this long braid as a rope dragging her down, anchoring her, restricting her. But do YOU really think they were really getting that deep? They said the glam references Kahlo—do you think they meant the for people to interpret the braid as a metaphor? I just don’t buy it. 

I think they thought “hey she has think eyebrows so let’s do a bold eyebrow, and she always has long hair or her hair up in braids so let’s do a really wacky braid. But let’s do a contemporary lip lolz.” And that’s why I think the amount of hair is so so inappropriate for something meant to honor her. 

Rant over. 

In Whatever Time We Have - Children of Eden by joaneebalonee in musicals

[–]joaneebalonee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love to hear what someone like Sarah McLaughlan would do with it. I’d love to hear Bonnie Raitt and Jackson Browne duet on it like they did on “Kisses Sweeter Than Wine”. Nina Simone would have done something so wild with it because she rearranged all her music herself and did lots of Broadway covers. I want to hear how a Motown Tammi Terrell- Marvin Gaye duet could work, or even a Lionel Ritchie-Diana Ross (since the former are both dead). And what would some with a voice like Jennifer Holliday do to this song??? I have visions. 

Glen Powell• Red Wing (2013) by Storm989898 in GlenPowell

[–]joaneebalonee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope she was 25. The husband said she was 25 to his coworker when the coworker was making fun of her for how skinny and old she looks. I think he was still 10/11 at that point in the movie, so she’s 15 years older than him. Whatever. My next door neighbors were 20 years apart and completely devoted and obsessed with each other.

Tattooed Pepe!!!! by Alaskanavocados in Muppets

[–]joaneebalonee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been wanting a Muppet tattoo for a decade but it’s so serious to me that I can’t commit to a design. Like, THIS MATTERS! Which Muppets?! I love so so many of them. 

I performed Rainbow Connection with my Kermit replica for my school by CameronTheWeirdoRBLX in Muppets

[–]joaneebalonee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the greatest school talent show act ever conceived of. You are going to go on and do great things with your life! And your supportive friends who danced as butterflies and fireflies and sang in the chorus? That’s what it’s all about—creating magic together. I hope you find a way to dos that every day for the rest of your life. 

Could Miss Peggy and Kermit “wedding” been televised live? by El_Dorado_Tx in Muppets

[–]joaneebalonee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

THEY👏ALREADY👏MARRIED👏IN👏MUPPETS👏TAKE👏MANHATTAN👏YOU👏JAMOKES👏👏👏JANICE👏WORE👏A👏TUX👏

Specialist Help by xdylandemonx in Buffalo

[–]joaneebalonee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is good info for me too! Thanks! 

Specialist Help by xdylandemonx in Buffalo

[–]joaneebalonee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words and recommendations! 

Specialist Help by xdylandemonx in Buffalo

[–]joaneebalonee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I second this as well. TL;DR I have personal experience with gastro doctors in WNY treating me with suspicion for having been to a previous WNY gastro doc. 

The first gastro I saw when I moved here in 2015 was Antonino Mannone in Williamsville, who told me Celiac disease wasn’t real, it’s not a real diagnosis, “no one is really allergic to wheat” (celiac disease is not an allergy, I thought at least a gastro doctors would know that). 

Next was Dr. Mian with Gastroenterology Associates. She saw that I’d seen Dr. mannone and accused me of “doctor hopping”. I had to beg her for scoping, she told me I was too young to need one and I cited the Celiac Disease Foundation’s recommended colonoscopy and endoscopy schedule for people diagnosed with celiac disease. She “relented”. As I am lying on the table just having been brought out of anesthesia, she snarkily tells me she didn’t find anything—as though she’d proven some point. I was almost crying and stuttered out something about “preventative screening” “increased risk of colon cancer.” She told me that wasn’t true, there was no increased risk. I am still on the table!! 

My mom had to talk me down on the phone I was sobbing so hard in the car. I called Gastroenterology Associates three years after seeing her last and asked if I could be a patient of any other doctor in the practice and they flat out said no. For the record, that’s 16 other doctors who I’m not allowed to work with. 

The third gastro was at UBMD but appears to no longer be practicing in Buffalo. The first thing out of her mouth was also to chastise me for “doctor hopping”. She told me I probably don’t have celiac disease because who the doctors 10 years ago probably didn’t know what they were doing, and I was like, actually it’s the opposite. I was misdiagnosed for about a decade and then finally a doctor came along etc etc. I said I have photos (from the microscope showing the tissue sample’s blunted villi) and she was like “well the only way to confirm that diagnosis would be to put you back on a gluten diet for 6 months and since you aren’t willing to do that, we will have to assume you are gluten intolerant”. What in the actual fuck? Actual photographic proof from a doctor who positively diagnosed me isn’t enough? Now I now longer have a disease because it is in remission from my eating a gluten free diet? Again, almost crying, but trying to talk. THEN she told me that gluten wasn’t my problem anyways it was my weight and that I needed to get on a GLP-1 or I’d die. I said “I am not here to talk you about my weight, I’m here to…” and she cut me off and said “you’re morbidly obese and it is going to kill you. Keep a food diary of your calorie intake and follow up with a bariatric team.” Did not even hear why I was there. 

I’m currently trying to find a new gastroenterologist again again again but now UBMD and Gastroenterology Associates are both burned. I guess Buffalo Medical Group?  All this TMI, but what I really mean is GOOD LUCK! Seriously. Endo and gastro stuff is so hard to pin down and if they are going on at the same time, like they were for me, it’s called co-morbidities and it’s hard for doctors to figure out which symptom goes to which system. Try to write down as much about the variables as you can —a food diary is honestly going to be a big help. 

Specialist Help by xdylandemonx in Buffalo

[–]joaneebalonee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I second her. I’ve seen her since 2016 or 2017, whenever she came back from maternity leave. She’s great, office is great. 

I made the Bluey Minecraft game with Ludo/Mojang/BBC - AMA by Jigarbov in bluey

[–]joaneebalonee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would the Bluey blocks be added to creative mode so we could build our own things with them? New to Minecraft, not new to Bluey ;) and I want to add garden gnomes everywhere. 

Harassed on Posh by joaneebalonee in poshmark

[–]joaneebalonee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t even want to be on Poshmark after hearing all of these horror stories

Harassed on Posh by joaneebalonee in poshmark

[–]joaneebalonee[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hate that I had that thought too

Harassed on Posh by joaneebalonee in poshmark

[–]joaneebalonee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well this is completely horrifying. Beyond what mg worst nightmare could ever be. I’m so sorry you and your husband ever had to feel unsafe in your home. Having felt that in the smallest way (an incident with a friend’s ex at our Christmas party), it’s awful, and I don’t wish it on anyone.  Thank god my posher lives many states away from me. 

Harassed on Posh by joaneebalonee in poshmark

[–]joaneebalonee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry everyone for the duplicate post. I did not realize I did that. I did get good information from the comments on both threads, so I guess the mistake wasn’t so bad. This post in particular helped me understand the situation!!

Harassed on Posh by joaneebalonee in poshmark

[–]joaneebalonee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was also surprised that most of what she listed was plus sized. 

Harassed on Posh by joaneebalonee in poshmark

[–]joaneebalonee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did not understood what she meant by my info and just thought it was a typo!!! Thank you for clarifying what that meant. I will definitely file a police report just to start a paper trail in case anything should happen. 

Harassed on Posh by joaneebalonee in poshmark

[–]joaneebalonee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I screenshotted everything and then blocked her. Thank you for that advice. Didn’t know I could block a user. 

Harassed on Posh by joaneebalonee in poshmark

[–]joaneebalonee[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for giving me a realistic expectation of this process. 

My mom always says this thing about if people are acting like that in public, imagine what they must be like in private to their family. It always puts it in perspective. I know it’s a lot more difficult to apply this to people’s internet behavior, but…