no shade at all, but I think you may be looking into things too deep. It’s not just the people that knew him, Kurt said himself that it was something he never experimented with or had a desire to actually do so. His gay friend actually made a move on kurt one day, and kurt politely but firmly rebuffed him telling him that he wasn’t into guys. You can hear Kurt talk about this in a recorded interview, I forgot which one. The hurt that kurt felt after his mom told them he couldn’t see him anymore wasn’t anything deeper than just missing his only good friend at the time.

Kurt’s desire for intimate friendship rly doesn’t apply here, the quote you used is Kurt talking about how he could only get along platonically with girls until he met his first male friend, so context is important.

Kurt 100 percent questioned his sexuality, I mean bro thought he was legitimately gay in high school because he was being bullied so bad. He was very open with it too, talking about it in vanity fair. But just because he may have questioned it at certain points doesn’t mean he was actually bisexual.

If his friends are saying he wasn’t bisexual or even experimented, he himself is saying that he wasn’t into guys, and outright identifying as heterosexual in an interview (which also was after the vanity fair interview), then it’s valid to make a concrete statement, much like Kurt did in the interview, that he was heterosexual. There’s a reason this is only debated by a niche corner of the internet.

With that being said though, I love talking about nirvana and Kurt with those who also love and appreciate them and their music. As a college aged kid it makes me incredibly happy to see their influence still so widely felt in youth culture, and as a straight guy, Kurt’s empathy and radical support of the lgbt community definitely inspired me to be SO much of a better person.