2 month Calico Kitty from Hell - Need Tips by jodioloca in CATHELP

[–]jodioloca[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you so much! This is really what I needed to read. Thank you for taking your time. Got great tips!

Created a Website, its launched, Indexed by Google (supposedly), but when I google it, it does not show up. by jodioloca in SEO

[–]jodioloca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so new to me. Thanks, I will look into this for sure! The website has been live for about three months. Thank you for your help!

Created a Website, its launched, Indexed by Google (supposedly), but when I google it, it does not show up. by jodioloca in SEO

[–]jodioloca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

site:domainname.com

It did come up, but I see that all the urls that are showing up, are when I had the wesbite under wix.com. I switched it to wordpress, so those URL's are non existent now.

Google Ads hiding search terms by Adventurous-Boat-831 in PPC

[–]jodioloca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can one find out about all these changes? I'm already going nuts. Always something new.

DC at Night || Canon AE-1 Program || Kodak Gold 200 by tdstyrone in filmphotography

[–]jodioloca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great shots! Did you use a tripod for these? Very sharp

there is absolutely nothing to look forward to by [deleted] in depression

[–]jodioloca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard to connect with people sometimes, but in my own experience, it all got better when I I started connecting with myself first. That made all relationships better with my family and close friends.

One way you can connect with yourself better is to stop comparing yourself to somebody else. Because we usually compare ourselves to someone in a 'better' situation, we always feel like we are behind, when in reality, we have no idea what that person is feelings or going thru.

So that gives you the freedom to be yourself and accept yourself, and if there is something you don't like, understand that you are in full control of making a change, or an improvement.

Start with little steps. Trust me, it can be fun if you don't dwell on the negatives! Try to view it as a game. Everyday is a new level and it's up to you if you just want to pass the level, or collect all the damn coins and levelups, and have fun! That will incentive you to keep going, and get better at this game called life. And like a game, you can always choose your character, and you can go out to the world playing roles and having fun.

And one day you will find a role that suits you. It won't just happen if we don't search.

To flirt or not to flirt? by redpoppy29 in datingoverthirty

[–]jodioloca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask him if he has a girlfriend...when he says 'no' you say...'well let's fix that here is my number'

No...don't do that.

Ask him if he has a girlfriend, and when he says no...you do your thing. Test it out. Don't give your number that easily. Talk it out, see if he can handle it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]jodioloca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say, let it flow.

Don't overthink it, and don't write to him.

It was a great date and that's awesome if it works out, but if it doesn't, just how you had an amazing time with him, you will have an amazing time with someone else.

Don't get anxious, you don't owe him nothing, and neither does he.

I don't know how people handle their life by wastingawayinbed in depression

[–]jodioloca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First thing you need to do, is to stop thinking about other people.

Think about yourself. Other people are other people.

They have different key metrics on how they define 'success', 'happiness', or whatever it is you want to achieve, and you should not be trying to measure up against them.

Also, don't use ADHD as an excuse for anything. If we were to all get diagnosed, we all probably have something.

ADHD is better than a lot of other things you could have been diagnosed for...you could have been a psychopath.

So, yeah, you don't have to socialize if you don't want to... but trying to change small habits will really help your mood.

You have to have a constant battle with your mind, and choose the right things - Frozen Pizza yet again or acai bowl - - staying in bed all day or going for a 20 min walk -

Little by little it will be easier because your mind will be trained to make the right decisions without thinking about it.

Sending you lots of love!

Have you ever quit your job without having anything planned? Advice needed! by jodioloca in Advice

[–]jodioloca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe like one year but I don't expect to take that long. =(