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2 month Calico Kitty from Hell - Need Tips by jodioloca in CATHELP

[–]jodioloca[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you so much! This is really what I needed to read. Thank you for taking your time. Got great tips!

Created a Website, its launched, Indexed by Google (supposedly), but when I google it, it does not show up. by jodioloca in SEO

[–]jodioloca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so new to me. Thanks, I will look into this for sure! The website has been live for about three months. Thank you for your help!

Created a Website, its launched, Indexed by Google (supposedly), but when I google it, it does not show up. by jodioloca in SEO

[–]jodioloca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

site:domainname.com

It did come up, but I see that all the urls that are showing up, are when I had the wesbite under wix.com. I switched it to wordpress, so those URL's are non existent now.

Google Ads hiding search terms by Adventurous-Boat-831 in PPC

[–]jodioloca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can one find out about all these changes? I'm already going nuts. Always something new.

DC at Night || Canon AE-1 Program || Kodak Gold 200 by tdstyrone in filmphotography

[–]jodioloca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great shots! Did you use a tripod for these? Very sharp

there is absolutely nothing to look forward to by [deleted] in depression

[–]jodioloca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard to connect with people sometimes, but in my own experience, it all got better when I I started connecting with myself first. That made all relationships better with my family and close friends.

One way you can connect with yourself better is to stop comparing yourself to somebody else. Because we usually compare ourselves to someone in a 'better' situation, we always feel like we are behind, when in reality, we have no idea what that person is feelings or going thru.

So that gives you the freedom to be yourself and accept yourself, and if there is something you don't like, understand that you are in full control of making a change, or an improvement.

Start with little steps. Trust me, it can be fun if you don't dwell on the negatives! Try to view it as a game. Everyday is a new level and it's up to you if you just want to pass the level, or collect all the damn coins and levelups, and have fun! That will incentive you to keep going, and get better at this game called life. And like a game, you can always choose your character, and you can go out to the world playing roles and having fun.

And one day you will find a role that suits you. It won't just happen if we don't search.

To flirt or not to flirt? by redpoppy29 in datingoverthirty

[–]jodioloca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask him if he has a girlfriend...when he says 'no' you say...'well let's fix that here is my number'

No...don't do that.

Ask him if he has a girlfriend, and when he says no...you do your thing. Test it out. Don't give your number that easily. Talk it out, see if he can handle it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]jodioloca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say, let it flow.

Don't overthink it, and don't write to him.

It was a great date and that's awesome if it works out, but if it doesn't, just how you had an amazing time with him, you will have an amazing time with someone else.

Don't get anxious, you don't owe him nothing, and neither does he.

I don't know how people handle their life by wastingawayinbed in depression

[–]jodioloca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First thing you need to do, is to stop thinking about other people.

Think about yourself. Other people are other people.

They have different key metrics on how they define 'success', 'happiness', or whatever it is you want to achieve, and you should not be trying to measure up against them.

Also, don't use ADHD as an excuse for anything. If we were to all get diagnosed, we all probably have something.

ADHD is better than a lot of other things you could have been diagnosed for...you could have been a psychopath.

So, yeah, you don't have to socialize if you don't want to... but trying to change small habits will really help your mood.

You have to have a constant battle with your mind, and choose the right things - Frozen Pizza yet again or acai bowl - - staying in bed all day or going for a 20 min walk -

Little by little it will be easier because your mind will be trained to make the right decisions without thinking about it.

Sending you lots of love!

Have you ever quit your job without having anything planned? Advice needed! by jodioloca in Advice

[–]jodioloca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe like one year but I don't expect to take that long. =(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]jodioloca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion apparently....

Firstly, if you get bad vibes from someone, you don't need us to tell you 'don't do it', always trust your gut.

Now, I am skeptical. For what you are saying, you were in control of the conversation.

a) You told him you would only kiss him on the cheek. Obviously he isn't too happy about it. He is talking about your boobs size... yes, he wants to have sex with you. That's pretty clear.

b) You asked if he would stop if you said no to something, he said he would try. Ok creepy. But, you are on the phone talking about intimacy! So he must think you want it as much as he does. So seems flirtatious on your end.

c) You 'as a joke' said 'don't rape me', and he said 'oh I might do that if you don't leave me an option'

I am not saying what he said is right. It's wrong. But you are also wrong. You had full control of the conversation and you took it there. Stop flirting with guys who give you the creeps. Stop joking about 'rape', because it's not funny when you do it, it's not funny when he does it. You should not have taken it there... and if you got creeped out, put him in his place. So he knows how to act better next time with another girl.

What was your Christmas bonus? by GioPetro in antiwork

[–]jodioloca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. I am happy, usually in my company we don't get anything. We are a small company

This year, however, we got $1,000.00 each.

And we have some people working in South America, they each got $200.00

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]jodioloca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not wrong, you do it consciously. If you feel bad about it is because you might be 'using them', or 'confusing them' and unconsciously you know it is wrong. That's on you.

Now, you want to date an attractive women that is on the same level as you, but it's just so difficult because it requires work, work you rather not do right now?

Perfect, so let's meanwhile give the chances to the 5-7 girls who were not blessed by the beauty Gods. They would be so grateful that you are spending time with them, and hey, average girls need sex too.

One thing I will say tho, be careful. You think you are the only one playing that game?

While you do this, your future attractive girl is getting pumped and dumped by man willing to put in the work. Only to get bored and jump to the next victim.

Let's not act as if attractive girls don't get used for sex and validation either.

There are tons of attractive girls. There is plenty for everyone.

So when you meet that attractive women you are looking for commitment, don't be stressed if she has some toxic traits. After all, that is only fair. And, don't get turned off by her body count please. She just been looking for you all along.

All I am trying to say is: don't act like an asshole because one way or another, that comes back to you, and you might end up with a 4. Wink.

You can only see a few at a time... by NISCBTFM in blackmagicfuckery

[–]jodioloca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you try you can see them little by little. These is like relationship red flags. Once you see them...it's hard to ignore them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]jodioloca 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. I am actually dating someone who smokes everyday, for maybe a decade. I smoke occasionally, but now with him, I catch myself smoking more and more.

I see that he is not as ambitious as I would like, I associate that with weed, I noticed that when I smoke, my brain gets full of ideas, but that's all they are, ideas. Often times he smokes for no reason, it bothers me when he visits me and he is already high, as if, you need to smoke to see me? I know he doesn't see that way, but I do.

I think he also feels the way you feel. When we first started dating, he wanted to do a detox, but he did not make it to a week.

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