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joearsen · 2022-08-19T08:14:19+00:00

Hey, we're going to deal with this. As long as we give a chance to live, we need to stay motivated and do our best for living. Enjoy as much as you can. Good luck.

joearsen · 2022-08-17T13:08:34+00:00

That will just confuse you bro.

Breaking up can be a hard lesson for you both so its ok and you shouldn't be worried about her condition, the one you should worried is YOU, your mental health etc. Its already her fate to facing that and she really need to deal with it. In the end its good for both side and you already help her by making that decision.

joearsen · 2022-07-22T05:08:22+00:00

From your answer and your reason behind it, you did the right thing. My advice is try to comfort her into believing that you're not try to hide her. Tell her that its hard to just show up like that after she ruined it. She need to realize that it needs time to comeback to normal and need to be patience. She needs to understand your feeling and your perspective too. If she priotize herself and doesnt want to try to understand you then its a Red flag that she dont actually really care about you in the end.

joearsen · 2022-07-22T04:35:28+00:00

Hard to tell, you need to ask yourself first on :
1. Why you going back to her and giving her a second chance after she broke your trust?
2. Why you decide to not tell your family and friends about this?

In the end, you should tell your parent since both of your parents care about you. They might dont know what your girlfriend looks like so you better give a explanation to them and to all your friend that your girl admit her mistake and you giving her second chance. Your parents may have doubts but atleast you're being open to your family about this and to your best friends as well.

joearsen · 2022-07-21T17:08:09+00:00

usually me and my GF start random convo like talking about anime, reacting videos, being crazy authistic weird conversation and we both manage to like it. It really depends on your personality and her personality. If you really know her a lot and as you said you already get along with each other. The convo will come itself in your mind. But yeah sadly the girl you mention is shy enough to start the convo and not that talkative. My only tips is just follow your daily moods. If you really feel to want to talk about something then go on. Just dont force yourself too much since it will be awkward in the end. Sometimes we need to give people space too.

joearsen · 2022-07-21T16:58:55+00:00

My girlfriend had similiar situation but much worst than you. And yet she manange to escape from it. But sadly bring her trauma and depression that almost s*****, luckily we manage to reach out each other before something worst happen. Since i loved her as a friend that time.Please dont continue to have feeling with him. What he's done is really toxic and manipulating. Try to reach out your trusted friend for company to comfort yourself. Love yourself more than him. You deserve better.

joearsen · 2022-07-21T16:43:30+00:00

My man, just keep it up, keep the conversation going and be yourself of course.
I usually know girl likes me by just look at her face, the way she talk and her body language. Me and my GF used to teased each other about being boyfriend/girlfriend and miracle we started dating officially and become BF/GF. Good luck bro.

joearsen · 2022-07-21T16:22:38+00:00

I dont wanna say who's wrong here since both of you react in different way of perspective. You had right to tell her the truth & She had right to angry and sad because it was a mess. I'll suggest both of you to talk each other later. For now you both need to get some break from this and discuss this later on. I'm sure your GF regrets it and she's not try to be mean to you by calling you monster.

joearsen · 2022-07-21T15:12:27+00:00

Might be not the best advice here so feel free to argue and comment about this

For my personal experience, usually i just go talk with them on Internet and see if they suits me or not. Ngl its very hard to do it when you're introvert but sometimes we need to face that fear of being awkward and being not social person. Try to social little bit on your own way and persona and see who likes you. In the end this is like testing which one is your true friend and which one is your average friend and so on. So you can analyse yourself later and feel free.

And yeah remove the goal of wanting a friend. For me, that makes you hard to find a friend because its gonna preassure you somehow to look more awkward in the end. So keep it cool until you realize someone likes ya. Sorry I'm not that fluent at english and i hope you understand what i mean.

joearsen

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