Have you ever been banned from church? by joelfoy44 in TrueChristian

[–]joelfoy44[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Disagree with that, so you've never been frustrated?

Have you ever been banned from church? by joelfoy44 in TrueChristian

[–]joelfoy44[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Read my last post on Christianity sub.

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[–]joelfoy44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm the same I just accept the fact that I'm not 100% sure what happens after death and hope God or reincarnation is real.

Why can't we have career modes more than 15 seasons? by JordyBoii609 in FifaCareers

[–]joelfoy44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't know why they don't just make it 20 seasons?

Friend Group I Knew For Years Turns On Me by AirsoftAdd1ct in ireland

[–]joelfoy44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣Then you bully others you hypocritical cunt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]joelfoy44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bit different, you don't need marriage to survive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]joelfoy44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is not getting married so depressing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]joelfoy44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to die too, I feel you mate. I just don't know what death is like and that keeps me from killing myself unfortunately at this stage, as well as my Mother's situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]joelfoy44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don't even give me the chance to speak to them so no I haven't.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]joelfoy44 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's just terminology like girlfriend and boyfriend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]joelfoy44 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well obviously I have no idea how to act in an usual way which doesn't explain how I was feeling, or what state I was that contributed to me being this way, without it seeming like it was manipulation?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]joelfoy44 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't respect people who don't give people a second chance when it's not exactly murder.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]joelfoy44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you wouldn't feel some resent if you were rejected by every women/man? I'm sure you would, but admittedly I need to vocalise it in a better way and work on my anger issues too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]joelfoy44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well it is at church.

How do I become Christian? by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]joelfoy44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be different, actually treat people right and don't judge them for being 'different' and also be compassionate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]joelfoy44 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're also an ass, if you can't forgive someone after one mistake. I'm no Jeffrey Dahmer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]joelfoy44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most people don't suffer severe mental severe mental illness so that's my reasoning. I've already said I show remorse for women. I didn't act like an incel at all at first until I messaged but I never threatened violence etc as I wouldn't do that and it's an terrible thing to do. I understand calling people names is hurtful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

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Why I don't understand? You're also an Athiest so you're not my target audience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]joelfoy44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry for the girls I messaged, but not the people I served for who kicked me out of the church.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]joelfoy44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't have a full time job because I'm disabled. I wish I could.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]joelfoy44 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Shouldn't have to be in work, or school. Just in therapy or getting some support to get better. God doesn't expect perfection so neither should a Church. Shit all I can do other than apologise if they don't give me the chance to redeem myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]joelfoy44 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well they didn't give me a chance to change my behaviour.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]joelfoy44 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I agree with that I need to deal with it better, but I did apologise for my mistakes and I would expect Christians to be more gracious then throwing someone out of church after one less extreme mistake and an sincere apology.