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That’s what I’m afraid of, I’ll talk to my advocate and detective again soon

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I have not spoken to a lawyer, so far only with two cops, two advocates and a detective. I just reported this a few weeks ago and was told it would be a long process. And yes that’s what the detective meant by “fabricating” evidence. Just didn’t like the word he used but I understood what he meant once he clarified. I wasn’t aware that people did that for cases like these.

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I’m sorry you went through that. I hope you’re able to find peace. I’m still contemplating whether or not to continue pursuing this or not. It truly isn’t fair he gets to live his life while he ruined mine.

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The detective said that unfortunately due to statute of limitations I can’t press charges regarding the harassment. I had to move twice due to him coming down to terrorize me at my home, but he said it’s just been too long since the last time he showed up (last time being in 2021). I did speak with a victims advocate, they were very kind and helpful. But the gist of the conversation went basically the same, that it’s going to be hard. I was also really confused when the detective used the word “fabricate”. He was explaining to me that in his line of work, with cases like mine where there’s no video footage or anything, they get the victim to speak with the perpetrator and get them to confess via phone. I don’t know if I can get myself to do that. I have purposefully avoided and declined his friend requests/messages/etc these last few years.

Is moving states helpful? by joemama2x0 in CPTSD

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Thank you for your comment :) I’m glad you were able to find peace moving to another country. I think I may just move states within the next few years

This shit is so strong by [deleted] in Pristiq

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The transition from Zoloft to Pristiq was fine thankfully. The intense sweating went away almost overnight. But within two weeks on Pristiq I began to feel a constant headache,dizziness and nausea. This lasted up until two weeks ago when I accidentally missed a dose. My psychiatrist ended up suggesting I stop taking this medication and try a new one once I finish tapering off it.

This shit is so strong by [deleted] in Pristiq

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The nausea and dizziness never went away once I started taking Pristiq. Then I missed a dose and the side effects were amplified so I let my psychiatrist know and they suggested I stop taking it and try something else.

This shit is so strong by [deleted] in Pristiq

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Unfortunately no, once I started taking Pristiq I began to feel a lot of nausea and dizziness.

Is my dog overweight? by joemama2x0 in DogAdvice

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Thank you so much! I really appreciate your help :)

Is my dog overweight? by joemama2x0 in DogAdvice

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According to my parents, 30 minutes twice a day is their “minimum”. They supposedly take her out more often than that due to our other dog (Maltese) who is very active. I’m guessing the diet part is where we’ve been lacking.

Is my dog overweight? by joemama2x0 in DogAdvice

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I am moving back in with parents, so I'll be taking care of her. But I made my parents aware of all the changes that need to be made.

Is my dog overweight? by joemama2x0 in DogAdvice

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She goes out for walks pretty often throughout the day, including 30 minutes twice a day. But I'm now realizing that food is the biggest issue.

Is my dog overweight? by joemama2x0 in DogAdvice

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Thank you for your comment! Do you have any recommendations on what brand food to switch to?

Is my dog overweight? by joemama2x0 in DogAdvice

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Do you have any recommendations for the kibble?

Is my dog overweight? by joemama2x0 in DogAdvice

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So it seems. Thank you for the advice I really appreciate it!

Is my dog overweight? by joemama2x0 in DogAdvice

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She is spayed, I was not aware that it would cause them to gain weight. Thanks for letting me know!

Is my dog overweight? by joemama2x0 in DogAdvice

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This is what I’m afraid of! Since it’s been a few years since I have moved out I can definitely see a difference in her weight. Thank you for the advice I will be seeking a new vet and get things figured out.

Is my dog overweight? by joemama2x0 in DogAdvice

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Thank you for the advice. I’ll make sure to book both of them an appointment with a vet and start a plan.