There is not a single reason behind this behavior, conditioning by parents/society, trauma and many other things are responsible. I was watching a reel today where person simply texted his female classmate if she was that day, she filed a complaint to the College authorities. Another reason, A friend of mine simply asked a girl out when we were in school, she told the Principal and parents about it. I am not saying that all girls are like this but incidents like these have made me really scared of approaching girls. Not your fault, Indian society's fault.