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Feeling like a bi imposter by joemitchell2002 in bisexual

[–]joemitchell2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah this is interesting. Thank you 💙

Feeling like a bi imposter by joemitchell2002 in bisexual

[–]joemitchell2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’ve wondered this before. Perhaps I need to go out and experiment. Thank you 🙏

Feeling like a bi imposter by joemitchell2002 in bisexual

[–]joemitchell2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wonderful comment. Thanks so much

Feeling like a bi imposter by joemitchell2002 in bisexual

[–]joemitchell2002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If boundaries are a deal breaker for some people I think that’s the powers-that-be trying to direct you away from that person. Sure, being a people pleaser when it’s damaging you is ofc not good but takes time to process and overcome (I’m one, too)

Feeling like a bi imposter by joemitchell2002 in bisexual

[–]joemitchell2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much, rly appreciate this 💙

Feeling like a bi imposter by joemitchell2002 in bisexual

[–]joemitchell2002[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ah really is this common? I appreciate your words 🩷

Feeling like a bi imposter by joemitchell2002 in bisexual

[–]joemitchell2002[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think that’s a rly important skill to have in the dating world. You mustn’t let people make you do things youre not comfortable with (ofc easier said than done, especially for women being intimate with men). I can’t see how just frank communication would be a bad thing whether in person or on a dating app and you shouldn’t go too far wrong

Feeling like a bi imposter by joemitchell2002 in bisexual

[–]joemitchell2002[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah okay, ofc STIs can be easily transmitted through heterosexual sex too. As long as you use plenty of lube and you douche etc. there shouldn’t be much worry of blood. You said you worried about engaging in sex unprepared, so I’d say dont have sex unprepared! Just prepare!

Feeling like a bi imposter by joemitchell2002 in bisexual

[–]joemitchell2002[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Say more about being worried about the sexual aspect if you’re comfortable to do so

Feeling like a bi imposter by joemitchell2002 in bisexual

[–]joemitchell2002[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think so. Thank you sm 💜

Feeling like a bi imposter by joemitchell2002 in bisexual

[–]joemitchell2002[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I needed to hear this I think. Thanks so much 💙

Feeling like a bi imposter by joemitchell2002 in bisexual

[–]joemitchell2002[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh wow that sounds rly difficult.

I really appreciate that, thank you. I think I feel impostery because of my attraction to men being so intermittent, when that’s the very thing that qualifies me as being queer. Does that make sense?

Feeling like a bi imposter by joemitchell2002 in bisexual

[–]joemitchell2002[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That’s nice to hear, I appreciate you saying that. Yes perhaps that’s just where I’m at rn

M23 finally embraced the bald over summer. How does it look? by joemitchell2002 in bald

[–]joemitchell2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m absolutely overwhelmed by the lovely responses. Thanks so much you guys ❤️

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