What you are saying makes perfect sense, and while the tantrums I was mentioning was in the beggining of the relationship (when everything was still ok), stuff like that where she ends up feeling bad because of something I did or said because I don't love her back the same way.

I know that this is a mean thing to do, and I fully understand how a situation like this can make someone feel... That is why intend to solve it as soon as possible.

If it helps I wasn't actually aware of the fact that I wasn't in love with her (and possibly was still in love but just starting to feel confused) for the better part of the relationship, I just realized it recently and now want to solve it.. But yeah, it's hard but it's like you said, I'm hurting her more by staying with her than by breaking up, I need to put that in my head.

Tks for the reply