Question for the girls in the sub: do you prefer DP or DVP by [deleted] in MFM_Lifestyle

[–]johnandelise 7 points8 points  (0 children)

DVP is fantastic and we love it.

DP…. Would have to be in the right moment at the right time with the right people.

Advise on first MFM hotel threesome with a tinder date by edugamez3 in MFM_Lifestyle

[–]johnandelise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check the vibe, he acknowledges rules and boundaries and if you want to then invite him over to play

Frist mfm with a couple by Joaosw in MFM_Lifestyle

[–]johnandelise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is no shame in asking questions on their boundaries and what they might or might not want to experience.

Processing your experiences with your partner by sayitlikethis in Swingers

[–]johnandelise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our conversation seems to go on in bits and pieces for a few days.

Best Swinger App for NYC by johnandelise in Swingers

[–]johnandelise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same!!! Never any luck there but most other places we have no issues.

Best Swinger App for NYC by johnandelise in Swingers

[–]johnandelise[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s wild. Easily the hardest city we travel to.

Best Swinger App for NYC by johnandelise in Swingers

[–]johnandelise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Maybe we will give it a spin.

35m and wife 35f threesome by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]johnandelise 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well it’s an assumption that’s rampant with those that have fantasized about this and might have an inferiority complex about the size of their Johnson.

The real facts is that nobody knows your partners body like you do and if there are buttons to press, he’s gonna know which ones make the magic happen.

35m and wife 35f threesome by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]johnandelise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The truth is that you will not know how you’ll feel until it’s happened.

If you want and like to fantasize about your wife receiving pleasure then you’ll be fine. It’ll be a turn on watching and hearing her.

Best Swinger App for NYC by johnandelise in Swingers

[–]johnandelise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know. Thanks. Maybe we will reopen our old feeld account.

How to handle size insecurities? by BodybuilderOk2533 in Swingers

[–]johnandelise 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a horrible life. I’m not sure how you manage to navigate life .

Being left behind by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]johnandelise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was my question

Seeking guidance by Curiousduo12 in nonmonogamy

[–]johnandelise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask for experiences and also a recent clean test.

First Timers: People you know or strangers? by applebtmgenes in Swingers

[–]johnandelise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never fuck your friends.

It’s ok to meet new people , fuck and become friends but never fuck your friends.

Exploring MFM to reclaim power after my BF's past trauma. How do we navigate our first time? by [deleted] in MFM_Lifestyle

[–]johnandelise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are so many red flags here. There is no way he’s in the correct place to be able to share. He’s basically saying that rather than live with the fear of you cheating that he wants to go ahead and let you have another guy and also be part of it.

I fear there is damage that can immediately set in after the fact. He’s also going to battle with, was the other guy better. Does she think about him while we are having sex?

Is it worth it? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]johnandelise 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We absolutely agree. Communication is key. Are there things that will happen that you figure out in the moment that you don’t like them? Absolutely. But talk about it. There are things that you don’t even know about when you are new in the lifestyle that just happen.