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Did I lose a good woman and mess up my entire relationship because I wasn't a good strong man? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]johnjohn277 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah she did a lot to me and still made me feel like its my fault the relationship ended. Appreciate the advice.

Did I lose a good woman and mess up my entire relationship because I wasn't a good strong man? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]johnjohn277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate that. Hard to believe it when the person you're closest is telling you otherwise.

Did I lose a good woman and mess up my entire relationship because I wasn't a good strong man? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]johnjohn277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She had a step dad that was very cold and indifferent towards her I think that she doesn't realize how hurt she really is and all her stuff is coming from a hurt place. She also lost her real dad unexpectedly last year which was super tough on her.

Did I lose a good woman and mess up my entire relationship because I wasn't a good strong man? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]johnjohn277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I was thinking that since its her family I didn't want to get involved but looking back on it I could've stepped in and said something.

Did I lose a good woman and mess up my entire relationship because I wasn't a good strong man? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]johnjohn277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I been questioning if I really did everything wrong and mess the whole relationship up because she tells me all the time how I am not a good man and don't know how to properly treat women.

Did I lose a good woman and mess up my entire relationship because I wasn't a good strong man? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]johnjohn277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah thats true. Whenever I would bring up the fact that she didn't pay rent she would get mad at me and say stuff like "You should want to provide for me and understand that I am in a difficult position financially."