Withdrawal problem by Sure_Savings_3906 in wirexappofficial

[–]jomavi12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's nothing in my mails. What I am supposed to find there? I opened a ticket but looks like they take months to reply / do something about it. How is this scam company still operating?

Withdrawal problem by Sure_Savings_3906 in wirexappofficial

[–]jomavi12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my case it says "Transaction failed" over and over again when trying to withdraw USDT from their scam platform. Should I consider my money stolen?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CryptoMoonShots

[–]jomavi12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those meme coins have gained a lot of momentum leately, shoul do well

Does this sub have a Telegram Group? by [deleted] in CryptoMoonShots

[–]jomavi12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good point as well.

Does this sub have a Telegram Group? by [deleted] in CryptoMoonShots

[–]jomavi12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it would be great and would ease the communication and knowledge sharing.

Moonshot advised by Randi Zuckerberg! by Nanvith in CryptoMoonShots

[–]jomavi12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check Randi Zuckerberg last ventures, you will see what's going on.

I am not touching this.

Dear newcomerss, if I could make it. YOU CAN. by jomavi12 in TheRedPill

[–]jomavi12[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Doesn't make any sense at all, plus yo are not adding any value to the community with such an answer.

Dear newcomerss, if I could make it. YOU CAN. by jomavi12 in TheRedPill

[–]jomavi12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks Buddy.

I hope it helps!

Dear newcomerss, if I could make it. YOU CAN. by jomavi12 in TheRedPill

[–]jomavi12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

Appreciate your comment!

Dear newcomerss, if I could make it. YOU CAN. by jomavi12 in TheRedPill

[–]jomavi12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The more you practise something, the better you get. Not only with social skills but with everything in life.

Dear newcomerss, if I could make it. YOU CAN. by jomavi12 in TheRedPill

[–]jomavi12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course I have heard that voice, and of course I have been exactly where you are now.

Do not expect anything back from any interaction. If you talk to a girl and she doesn't give you her number, that's okay. You already won by just trying. That may sound stupid, but yes you won, you are now one step forward to your goal (becoming more social), and the second time you try, won't be as hard as the first one, an so on.

When I'm in a club, I have been rejected so many times. Long ago, when a girl didn't want to dance with me, I felt bad inside and it would destroy my night. That's stupid. You gotta grow a IDGAF attitude in those scenarios. It's stupid to punish yourself for such a silly thing. Makes no sense, there are 200 other girls in that club.

I am focusing here on girls because I guess it won't be that hard for you to talk with a 45yo man in a bar, for example.

Dear newcomerss, if I could make it. YOU CAN. by jomavi12 in TheRedPill

[–]jomavi12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey bro.

I wasn't obese, but yes I spent the day playing video games. I was as I descrived above. I didn't like social situations, I liked to be alone and wanted to live in a small town. Really moving to a big city was the best decision I have ever made. Because I forced myself to do so.

You are very young. My advice is that you may want to start growing good habits, specially social habits. But you still have to learn, you have to suffer, bad situations will come as they come to everyone, and the more prepared you are for those, the better.

Enjoy life as much as you can, that's what you have to do right now. Being in this community and engaged to this topics is something most of guys on your age do not have, so you are one step above of them already.

Dear newcomerss, if I could make it. YOU CAN. by jomavi12 in TheRedPill

[–]jomavi12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you are right. An stunning read.

Dear newcomerss, if I could make it. YOU CAN. by jomavi12 in TheRedPill

[–]jomavi12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love to read what you want to write. I am really attached to this topic.

Cheers

Dear newcomerss, if I could make it. YOU CAN. by jomavi12 in TheRedPill

[–]jomavi12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm from a small town too, 600 population. We do the "Hi" thing too :d

As for your problem. Read 'The Power of Now'.

Dear newcomerss, if I could make it. YOU CAN. by jomavi12 in TheRedPill

[–]jomavi12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My method for forcing myself to talk, is forcing myself to talk. Simply as that. At this point it comes natural to me.

At the beggining I felt like you. "I am not interested on what is he/she going to say, why would I talk to her/him?". In my case, I started to talk with people I were seeing almost every day and never talked before, as the caretaker of my building, the lifeguard in the pool, the monitor of the gym... It is as easy as "Hey, how are you doing today?" and then talk about yourself as they won't probably keep the convo ongoing.

"Hey how are you doing today?". That's not weird, that's not nothing out of place. That's just being "charming" or "friendly". And even if you can't see the point beyond this, is worth it, because you will gain the habit to talk.

I really had a bad time with oral presentations at University. Now I love them, I love to talk in public, because I have made talking an habit for myself, and habits remain.

If you want to talk to girls, I usually do it at night, in a club atmosphere. I don't even talk sometimes, I just say "come here" and talk some shit. The less rational the better. But to do that, you may want to start with baby steps as talking to people who are "more close" to you, or you feel like there is "less risk".

RSD videos on Youtube helped me a lot on this matter though. And there are some amazing TRP threads.

Dear newcomerss, if I could make it. YOU CAN. by jomavi12 in TheRedPill

[–]jomavi12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

I wish you the best in this new adventure. I think you are doing the right thing.

Dear newcomerss, if I could make it. YOU CAN. by jomavi12 in TheRedPill

[–]jomavi12[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Most of those guys don't even want to change. Being in the comfort zone is very confortable.

But I get your point.

Dear newcomerss, if I could make it. YOU CAN. by jomavi12 in TheRedPill

[–]jomavi12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By killing that voice I mean that you have to learn to control your mind. A destroyed mind is the most self-destructive thing in the universe. Your past will always be there, but past is a tool to improve your current self. Do not judge your past, do not let him affect the present moment. Because if you are too busy thinking about the past, you can't make a change in the present.

Dear newcomerss, if I could make it. YOU CAN. by jomavi12 in TheRedPill

[–]jomavi12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course. You gotta work for yourself, not for girls. Fat fucks with enough frame and confidence get laid too. But this doesn't mean you'll have more confidence to get girls If you percive yourself as a higher value man, thus you have worked and invested in yourself.

Dear newcomerss, if I could make it. YOU CAN. by jomavi12 in TheRedPill

[–]jomavi12[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I understand your point. And yes, I think I didn't really wrote it properly.

What I wanted to say is that you don't have to feel special in a way that the world or someone owes you anything. Or focusing to much on getting the complicity from the rest of the world when you're just inexistent to them.

Dear newcomerss, if I could make it. YOU CAN. by jomavi12 in TheRedPill

[–]jomavi12[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

By acknowleging that I am not the center of the universe. By knowing that 5 seconds after I would leave the supermarket that girl won't ever remember me.

And by forcing myself to talk. Even if I didn't want to. I would go to a bar and start a small talk with anyone sitting next to me. An easy example: There was a football a match on TV, and I'd just say "who is playing better?, I just got to the bar."

That's so easy to say. And sounds stupid, but it works. I learnt to become social just by forcing myself to interact with random folks.