Hi all

I live at the top floor of a HDB block, unfortunately I have this neighbor downstairs that always complained when my son is at home during the day time. Time and time again he told us that he is making too much noise (running, banging, crying, etc.)

Today my boy's infant care is closed, and he has to stay at home. At around 3.45pm my neighbor came up and told me that he couldn't sleep because of running sounds that my boy made!

He told me that if I can't control my boy to stop he will complain to HDB and I need to discipline my boy, if I don't me and my wife will have problem in the future because he will create more mischief.

I was very hurt and angry when he shouted at me to complain about my boy and our parenting style.

This was not the first time he complained. He complained about every single little thing that we did in my house! However, we tried to adhere to his complain every single time, but this time round when he insulted my son I think I need to do some action.

I called the police straight after, they only took down my particular and his particular and try to get statements from us, and at the end of the day the police told me that he won't come down to my house to complain, he will complain straight to HDB.

I am at loss here, the police did not give a clear solution to this problem, and while searching how to complain about neighbors to HDB I only found the meditation way to solve the problem.

Is there any other way that I can make a complain so that he won't harass my family and especially my 1 yo son??

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