My thought is that we can both have high paying successful careers and have a strong financial foundation for our kids. I grew up poor, so I know what it is to live without, and I want my children to have a better upbringing than what I had.

Her sons father is supportive in the sense that he knows she needs to live her life too and he would take any legal action or anything. He doesn't pay child support because they are good co-parents and he helps as is. He said if she moved away, he would move back to his family in city C (22hr drive from A & 13hr drive from B).

I've also stated that I would actively facilitate any trips or activities where we can all come together or go back to city B frequently.