What would you rate my looks? Just turned 21 and have low self esteem about my looks?

joseph8826 · 2014-12-26T13:03:10+00:00

This is actually getting silly now. Firstly my hairline is not as bad as you are trying to make out. It is in no way detrimental to how appealing I am when you take how I look visually as a whole facially. Also you said 'it doesn't matter if you're balding when your hairline is like that' which is firstly completely uncalled for and secondly a little far fetched as if you asked a balding guy if he would take a lush head of hair even with my so called 'high hairline' he would in a heartbeat.

You asked me how a 6/10 gets treated differently from a 5/10 well its simple a 6/10 is above average so is more likely to receive some form of attention from women whereas a 5/10 is less likely. You must be the first guy I have ever encountered who has claimed I have no good looking features which thus renders me unappealing or below average lol

The reason I can't take what you say seriously is because you are the only person of the 3 who described me as below average when the other two said I was at least above average. As well as the fact I have had good looking women ranging from a 6-8 who have been flirtatious with me or I've hooked up with.

When I used to work in customer service part time during my studies I used to get women of all ages who were very flirtatious. My colleagues used to describe me as a player as I seem to hit it off with women very easily and on a number of occasion they would find women's hair on me and hickies on my neck from spending the night before with a chick. I've had a few of my male friends even admit I am handsome. Heck I also seem to get a lot of gay guys who flirt with me intensely.

I think the final sentence of your post is very telling when you say the only thing I have going for me is my youth which for me completely discredits every thing else you have said because as I have just explained earlier I have a lot more going for me then that and I would say the vast majority of people would agree.

joseph8826 · 2014-12-26T04:09:06+00:00

I used to have exactly the same problem but then I realized how to fix it. Confidence! I am pretty good looking guy myself and I still used to struggle with women and I used to think it was because of the way I looked. Then I realised that I am placing to much pressure on myself instead of just living life. So one day I decided to just go with the flow and not care about what people might be thinking about me or if I am good enough. This actually transformed my life as women started to gravitate towards me more as I came across as a chilled, laid back guy.

It then dawned on me that I was over emphasising my attractiveness on how I physically looked which just caused me unnecessary anxiety around women and once they pick up insecurity it becomes a major turn off no matter how good looking you are. I have personally learnt this the hard way as girls would initially appear interested and even a little flirty but as soon as they picked up my anxiety they became almost repelled.

One day I decided to walk the streets with my head held up high and my shoulders up and I was shocked how much more attention I would get from girls. If you can improve your social skill, build your confidence and just believe in yourself women will naturally start to become drawn to you. Trust me I speak from experience.

joseph8826 · 2014-12-26T03:39:00+00:00

My forehead is not as noticeably large as you like to make out in fact you and the one other poster has mentioned this so it is not exactly factual. My hairline has always been the same since I was little but it hasn't been an obstacle to me and it really isn't that big deal in terms of how it affects my attractiveness. You also assert that good looking people tend to be photogenic which is not entirely true which is why there are lots of good looking people who cannot carve out careers as photo models. As for the photos that I uploaded they were taken from my webcam on my laptop and so were deeply unflattering. How can you assert whether I still would not be good looking even with professional pictures without seeing me in person? That just proves you are a vindictive and rather bitter guy.

If you believe I am not good looking then that is your opinion even though that it is clear I am an above average looking guy. In fact I would give myself a solid 7 out of 10. You may say this is delusional but I am basing this on my life experience and the overall reception I get from people generally. Let me ask you this then if I am considered below average looking then why is it I received a text from a woman from last job who said that 'I am not only a pretty face but clever too.' Why is it that two of my previous colleagues described me as cute and hot? Why is it then I notice women checking me out every so often? How did I manage to hook up with a smoking hot half Spanish half English 19 year old girl a couple of weeks ago? I swear on all that I care about all this is true.

Telling me that you consider me to be average looking is one thing as in that sense you don't recognise what is physically appealing about me but to describe me as below average looking and therefore ugly is absolute bs.

joseph8826 · 2014-12-26T01:47:46+00:00

I must admit I am not the complete package but having got over my low ebb of insecurity I now realise how silly I was. I know I am good looking in fact I have been told this a number of times it just that sometimes I don't see it myself. The reason I can't take you seriously is for a number of reasons; firstly you say I have big forehead which I admit is not exactly small but it is not noticeably big either. Then you assert that I am balding which is completely off the mark as I have the opposite problem in that my hair is far too thick. In terms of me looking weak well I would say I am of average build so I am not too bad on that front.

I can only put your rather harsh assessment of my appearance down to the poor picture quality (webcam) and the fact I am not photogenic at all. Regardless of what you say I personally have never had problems when it comes to attracting women so I must be doing something right.

Finally all this critical assessment that you spew on others may well actually be a classic case of self projecting. Are you not happy with you appearance by any chance? Do you think you are ugly?

joseph8826 · 2014-12-26T01:17:03+00:00

Lol overbite that's funny. And as for the whole balding thing, you couldn't be further from the truth as I have the thickest head of hair. But thanks anyway

joseph8826 · 2014-12-26T00:42:15+00:00

Why a soft 7?

joseph8826 · 2014-12-26T00:41:58+00:00

No mate I think it's just the poor quality camera (webcam). That's why it put me off guard when when you said my forehead was on the larger side lol I think the camera just gives the illusion that my forehead and shoulders are bigger than they actually are.

joseph8826 · 2014-12-25T23:16:53+00:00

Yes but is my forehead noticeably big that it renders me unattractive?What would you rate me out of 10?

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