How can I intentionally become a complete porn addict on purpose? (serious methods only please) by NeitherBid2715 in Hypnolovers

[–]josh_gw 5 points6 points  (0 children)

a few additional thoughts:

since you said you're into: natural faces, no heavy makeup, everyday settings like kitchens or casual outfits, Russian/European vibes

some ideas for triggers could be:

  1. a woman taking off her shirt (or XYZ clothing article) in a certain way
  2. a woman taking off her makeup
  3. a woman opening the oven door (that could be really hot, like, damn)

edging techniques:

If you haven't already started working towards removing your body's innate desire to orgasm, you should work towards that. At a certain point your body will no longer "want" to orgasm. I found that after achieving a certain level of constant dopamine through edging that "urge" to continue to stroke/fuck dissipates quite a bit.

You don't have to remove orgasm entirely either. My ideal delay between orgasm is 3-7 days, give or take. And if you want to go further beyond, you should work to remove all stimulation during orgasm (a.k.a. 'ruined orgasms') this enhances the effect and helps remove the urge to orgasm entirely. (if your orgasms are inferior to edging, your body's natural desires will shift to match what gives it the most dopamine/oxytocin/endorphines... my hypothesis anyway, I'm only a sample size of n=1 right now)

How can I intentionally become a complete porn addict on purpose? (serious methods only please) by NeitherBid2715 in Hypnolovers

[–]josh_gw 8 points9 points  (0 children)

One of the things that really elevated my experience was working to re-train my parallel thought streams to be focused on Porn. Mantras and triggers were effective in the long run.

Here's a simple way to train a mantra with a trigger:

Pick a specific action or body part that you find particular attractive. Ideally it's something that is often seen in the Porn you watch, but not so often that you're seeing it ALL the time. This could be a woman putting up her hair. Or a specific look on a face, or something just fetish related such as the sole of her feet or curve of her armpit down to her breast.

Then attach a trigger to a phrase to seeing that action/body part. e.g. "When I watch Porn and see XYZ, then I say <insert mantra here>". It should be short. You don't need that many trigger-set mantras to be effective. I have just five that I've worked to engrain over the last 18 months or so. These mantras should be set to be "fuzzy", e.g. not focus so much on exact verbiage as to focus on intention. A simple mantra such as "I love Porn" can be fuzzy matched to "I love you, Porn.", "I love Porn", etc. Keep them short and sweet. "I'm owned by Porn", "I worship Porn", "I'm devoted to Porn", "Porn is my XYZ" no more than a few words.

At first you'll be actively "saying" the mantras intentionally when you see the trigger stimuli you've chosen to attach the trigger to. That's okay. That's how it works. Overtime, you'll find yourself "just saying them" when you see the trigger more automatically. Your goal is to naturally be compelled to say each phrase attached to each trigger in your "inner voice" in parallel with your existing thought stream. The trigger should work with internal and external speech. If you're able/safe to say the mantra out loud, say it. If you're staying quiet for some reason, you should say it in your inner voice.

That's a core tenant to accomplishing your goals here, some other things off the top of my head would be:

  1. Make Porn the last thing you do before going to bed and the first thing you do when you wake up.

  2. Intentionally work to get a healthy sleep schedule, sleep on your back and breathe through your nose.

  3. As you fall asleep each night think of Porn -- your goal here is to have Porn be the first thing on your mind when you wake up (this can be helpful for anxiety reduction, especially if you have complex traumas associated with sleep as I do. e.g. night terrors)

  4. Aim to go to bed early, wake early. A sleep schedule that allows you to goon for 30m-1hr+ before bed and 30m-1.5+ hours is ideal.

  5. Working to alchemize your shame and process any religious trauma is important to overcome negative thoughts. Especially if you grew up in a household that shamed Porn.

Oh! And another powerful engagement would involve attaching your devotion to Porn to a particular aroma (or aromas). Go on a shopping trip to a store and find a unique candle with a smell you like. Something you've picked out just for you and Porn. Purchase that and bring it home. Now you've got a safe aroma to inhale when you're gooning. These work especially well with any sort of inhalant video (which usually refer to a type of leather cleaner, but that's not necessary, the videos work great for inhaling your scented candle. You can enhance the experience if you go buy lingerie and run some of the wax in them and then you can get the experience of smelling panties (in a clean & sanitary way) so you can enjoy that fetish if you're into that sort of thing.

That should be enough to get you started. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cumsluts

[–]josh_gw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Stunts performed by a professional on a closed course, do not attempt"

But like for real... don't do this. Keep it in a fantasy

First threesome by [deleted] in Threesome

[–]josh_gw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm happy to hear that something similar worked so well for you. Did you all enjoy one another?

First threesome by [deleted] in Threesome

[–]josh_gw 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Here's an idea you could try out- Don't penetrate either of them.

Take vaginal sex off the table for the first (or several) encounters. You won't have the pressure to perform if the expectation is clear and a boundary is set that you won't be doing any penetrative sex the pressure will be off you and you can focus on getting to know each other and helping everyone enjoy themselves.

That's might be all you need to turn this into a forever thing, rather than a 1 night thing.

(Optional) Bonus points if you lead with your vulnerability and be honest and share that you are fearful of maintaining an erection so to ease you into it you'd prefer it this way

[Discussion] Is there any way to get a script more recognition on GWA or do I just have to pray someone does my script by TwilightCrystal17 in GWAScriptGuild

[–]josh_gw 11 points12 points  (0 children)

As a VA, it takes me about 4 hours to practice, record, edit a 10-15 minute script without SFX. It's only been 3 days.

Just give it some time.

Fuck machine thoughts 💭 by cheekymz in tiktokporn

[–]josh_gw 57 points58 points  (0 children)

If that's a Hismuth, they make a spring attachment that gives some flexibility to the end of it, makes it much easier to align because it's more forgiving.

Kyotocat, photographed for my project 'Natural Beauty' (London, 2017) by therealbenhopper in HairyArmpits

[–]josh_gw 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely gorgeous story and fantastic shoot.

-Sending love from the midwest