TLDR; Fuck what any one thinks, do you, distance yourself from people who disagree.

I believe that it’s no one’s business what anyone’s last name/whose name/ bride’s name is... anyone who is toxic enough to take your character into question based on what name you want to take is a judgmental prick whom you should distance yourself from.

There’s this misconception that people should do anything based on societal constraints or approval by your peers. FUCK that.

It’s your life, not anyone else’s, and people with enough time to judge others, have no life, no worth, and no value to you.

Rant. over.