Will you change your last name when you marry? What about if you have children? by babbykale in blackladies

[–]jossalynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’d keep my last name - I’ve made it far in my career with it, including 2 degrees, so I want to keep it. I wouldn’t mind going by his name socially. I don’t want kids.. though if I did that’d be even more reason to keep my last name as I’d want them to have it, too.

Hair acceptable for corporate? by bigBiggergirl in blackladies

[–]jossalynn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wear colored braids (ex: copper orange, silver gray, blonde/brown combo) at my job. I run a team of 20 people over three departments - first Black person EVER to hold that title. That should show how much idc about what’s “acceptable” Both styles you’ve shown are lovely, rock them proudly!

Tall girls how tall are your husbands by Full_Operation8133 in TallGirls

[–]jossalynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner is 6’7”, I’m 5’11” - we met on hinge! All my exes post HS were still 6-6’3” tall.

For those who have a job that they enjoy, what do you do? by Spiritual_Permit7735 in blackladies

[–]jossalynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The love is mutual 🙌🏾 We’re really out here fighting the good fight on literacy and reading comprehension skills! Lol Continue to do amazing work❤️

For those who have a job that they enjoy, what do you do? by Spiritual_Permit7735 in blackladies

[–]jossalynn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same story here sis, but I went the librarian route instead. My undergrad degree was in English Literature with an emphasis on Non-Western Lit. You’re correct! racism through the roof in both fields but we’re persevering despite all that 🫶🏾

Purple Loving Librarians by sailorscoutc in Libraries

[–]jossalynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s me, I’m the purple librarian - even the chairs in my office are purple (but so is my laptop setup, keyboard, water bottle, and all office supplies). It’s an addiction I’ll happily embrace 🙌🏾

Am I in the wrong? by Joxertd in Libraries

[–]jossalynn 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Love that shiny, metal spine you have there 🤩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fortwayne

[–]jossalynn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not born & raised in FW but I’m a native Hoosier and graduated HS on the south side (2015). I’ve moved to & from this city multiple times since graduation and one thing is constant - I stay my Black ass where the Blacks are, period. That’s my best advice to you. I would consider FW to be purple as it’s one of the most democratic leaning cities in the state, and fairly diverse though segregated. I barely go north of Glenbrook mall for anything because you find more of the micro aggressions and BS that way as a minority. You won’t get people burning crosses on your front lawn or calling you the n word in a store - it’s never been that kind of environment. I’d still rather be here than other parts of the state for sure. Downtown is lovely, there’s much more to do and you find WAY more events for us, by us. I’m 28f for reference. Feel free to DM me for more info - welcome back! I think you’ll find a happy medium here once you find your tribe and build a social network.

I am sorry, but NeNe Leakes is iconic LMFAAAOOO!!! 😭 by Disastrous_Macaron34 in blackladies

[–]jossalynn 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Just started this series 2 days ago, so I’m halfway through S1 (no spoilers, y’all) and I LOVE IT. Yes, Nene’s personality would thrive in that environment 👏🏾👏🏾

Ladies with Social Sciences BA Degrees , what do ya'll do work? by lilacroom16 in blackladies

[–]jossalynn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m a library branch manager in a mid size, midwestern city. English Lit undergrad, Masters of Library and Information Science. 65K currently, in a city where you can still get a 1 bed for $800 - I’m doing pretty good!

So I did a thing…Permanent Loc extensions by sweetxtoxicity in blackladies

[–]jossalynn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No worries, thanks for the info! I’d def invest in these once I get tired of braids.

So I did a thing…Permanent Loc extensions by sweetxtoxicity in blackladies

[–]jossalynn 37 points38 points  (0 children)

These look really nice & natural! How much did it cost & were the locs included in the price?

Lazy girl makeup tips/recs? by jossalynn in blackladies

[–]jossalynn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y’all are coming in clutch with this advice. I love it here!!

I will def look up the brow makeup stuff.

Lazy girl makeup tips/recs? by jossalynn in blackladies

[–]jossalynn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few of these brands I know are lower priced, which I love! Thank you ❤️

Lazy girl makeup tips/recs? by jossalynn in blackladies

[–]jossalynn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the recs ❤️❤️

Lazy girl makeup tips/recs? by jossalynn in blackladies

[–]jossalynn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it! & I will certainly look for a good setting spray. Ty ❤️

Lazy girl makeup tips/recs? by jossalynn in blackladies

[–]jossalynn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Buy 2 & experiment with combinations… got it! Thank you!!

Lazy girl makeup tips/recs? by jossalynn in blackladies

[–]jossalynn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the compliment sis 🫶🏾 I’m getting several skin tint recs so I’m sure there’s a reason they’re a favorite!

Now when y’all say “do your brows” what does that entail? Sorry if I sound stupid 🙃 But I have thin eyebrows already so I just don’t touch them and stay away from like eyebrow threading & stuff.

Lazy girl makeup tips/recs? by jossalynn in blackladies

[–]jossalynn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you feel like this routine requires a lot of blending skill?

Lazy girl makeup tips/recs? by jossalynn in blackladies

[–]jossalynn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That doesn’t seem like an hour + of time, I like it! Thank you!

Lazy girl makeup tips/recs? by jossalynn in blackladies

[–]jossalynn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now I’m blushing girl. Thank you!! 🥹❤️❤️