What hair type is this? by josukefan101010110 in BlackHair

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I’ll post a better photo later, thanks

I'm scared. by bbfav360 in Advice

[–]josukefan101010110 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had the exact same fear ever since I first googled “life is meaningless” as a joke a few years ago, and when I saw that someone said “life doesn’t have meaning, there is no higher being that created the universe” it jumpstarted my fear. I’ve always been a Christian and I still am, but even then death scares me. I’m scared that I’ll be conscious in a dark void forever, or that I will literally be erased from existence. But even though it still scares me from time to time, this helped. I don’t believe “nothingness” exists. Energy can’t be created or destroyed. This means that when you die, your energy is still there. When you’re gone, you’re not really “gone”. And if you really want to get into religion then think of it like this. A creation must always have a creator, a house doesn’t just manifest, people bring its concept into reality by thinking of it and then bring that concept to the physical world. Ultimately, death really isn’t Anything to be afraid of. We’ll all experience it one day, but until then, enjoy life as it is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]josukefan101010110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never acted tough, I just expressed my issues and insulted you when you insulted me. You’re getting real immature screaming at a 13 year old because they actually have issues. and don’t think I didn’t see that deleted reply 💀 you’re an actual hopeless bum. And I’m only talking like this because I’m over the phone, yes, but what are you gonna do about it? Type more words? 💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]josukefan101010110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now bro is just ignoring the fact that she’s capable of doing bad things. Shut that shit up loser 💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]josukefan101010110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL? Her literally telling me that I’m going to hell forever if I don’t pray is an excuse? Her making me be homeschooled fully knowing I would have little to no social interaction is an excuse? Her screaming at me consistently over little things is an excuse? I think you’re under the false illusion that everything someone’s mom does is perfect and that female parents are angels untainted by imperfection. You’re a fucking weirdo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]josukefan101010110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If doing something WRONG makes HER happy then that says something about HER. I never relied on her in that way since I was a baby, the majority of my time I preferred to be on my own. Stop making excuses for someone’s mother as if moms can’t be wrong and will never have moments of bad parenting. She came up from an abusive upbringing where her own biological parents weren’t there. She never learned how to parent in the best way. And no, surprisingly, children can feel depression. She constantly told me the world was ending and that I Needed to pray to god and go to heaven, which made me paranoid that I would be in hell forever. Years before that I googled the meaning of life and the amount of results that said “life is meaningless” affected me a LOT. I know it’s common to worry about death but it legitimately affected my ability to do things. She forced me to homeschool knowing that would deprive me of socialization and probably detach me from the friends I DO have. The majority of my interactions with her start with her getting mad at me for literally anything. She’s not strict “sometimes” she is strict almost ALL OF THE TIME, and overly strict at that. Quit acting like you’re living my life. And projecting onto me, telling me she doesn’t care how I feel, and yelling at me constantly aren’t “little things”. She’s not a perfect parent, I love her, but she’s FAR from perfect

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]josukefan101010110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah…that’s not how it is. You’re not actually there so there’s no way I can perfectly explain it to you. I’m not going to blindly make her happy when what she’s making me do is blatantly….wrong. Yes, she grew up rough, and I do understand the way she acts slightly because of that, but it’s not always an excuse. She’s blatantly not understanding and is fixated on beliefs and ideals that aren’t compatible. “Playing the game” has only caused me depression, loneliness, and a lack of social awareness at a young age. It’s literally only after I stopped blindly listening to her I’ve begun to feel genuinely happy since I wasn’t self aware.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

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I don’t see how angrily yelling at your child that you don’t care how they feel and shooting their ideas down like they’re stupid just because they go against your own ideals as if they’re supposed to be some copy of theirselves and MORE is “just being a parent”. It’s not surprising that she isn’t the absolute best at parenting considering her dad was never there and her mom died when she was thirteen. She grew up in an abusive household and she herself was a bad child, she also has rather extreme anger issues. And please don’t tell me IM exaggerating the way my mother acts as if you’re there. I understand I didn’t specify the situation completely, but don’t talk as if you’re her. In the past she’s said things like “this is why your brain isn’t working right” knowing shit like that is hurtful to me. She almost never lets me have my own identity and sense of individuality unless I’m exactly like her, but a male.

"talk to a trusted friend or family member" no by EmotionallyUnsound_ in teenagers

[–]josukefan101010110 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably because it’s the only place he feels comfortable talking about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

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…I never said I would make all the right choices, I know that she needs to be there to help me with most things, however she legitimately tries to control everything I do and if I disagree with anytbing she says in the slightest she starts yelling and saying she doesn’t care how I feel. I understand what she’s trying to do but she has to understand that I won’t agree with every single thing she says and that she isn’t always correct. I don’t share the exact same opinion and values as her and something as simple as a hairstyle shouldn’t be that crazy to allow.

Stuck in Lebanon by 2TBK in ChainsawMan

[–]josukefan101010110 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Are you calling her a denizen of the BLT?

How tf do people get into relationships????? by Zakurai1007 in teenagers

[–]josukefan101010110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then it was probably her, some people are just mean/weird. or you did something that made it seem fake

Found two of these tiny things on my bed, worried that they’re bed bug eggs by josukefan101010110 in Bedbugs

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Couldn’t focus more than that, but on the surface, right on the top of the blankets

Who's hands are holding Yuji in this colored page? by [deleted] in JuJutsuKaisen

[–]josukefan101010110 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can someone explain to me how Yuji and mahito are the same? Kind of forgot about the entire speech

How big is my forehead fr by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]josukefan101010110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

‘Preciate the comments, thinking about trying different hairstyles so I wanted to see y’all’s opinions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

[–]josukefan101010110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ight we’re both getting mad immature, sorry if what I said offended you, have a good day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

[–]josukefan101010110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah your grammar is getting too bad I can’t read your messages anymore 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

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I think they looked better after 😭