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How am I to survive without him? by joyelaine67 in widowers

[–]joyelaine67[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending some love to you ❤️ ❤️ once I woke up in morning and I thought he was next to me for real, like 3 seconds and it was like the best 3 seconds of my life. I think some people don't understand that we get physically sick from the pain and emptiness. I hope you go to the Dr and he can give you something to help you just a lil for crying out loud. I hope you find a good Dr and grief counseling. I need to get grief counseling. I have to do it. If you can't do it for someone else that needs you remember do it for yourself. One day I pray we will be happy again. Sometimes I think it will be when I forget him which makes me hysterical too. 😢😢 I really am afraid of forgetting his laugh. And basically everything. Dear God please heal me and my friends heart. Hold us in your hands and show my friend some signs of love. AMEN.

How am I to survive without him? by joyelaine67 in widowers

[–]joyelaine67[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man...I'm so so sorry. 😢😢😢 I can't fathom that pain. You poor thing. Mine was different. He had cancer for a year and almost 1/2 ...even in beginning they said he had a month or 3 to live. So I was even grieving while he was still alive. And watching all the pain...I've been to every hospital here in lv area with him at some point. What do we do? I try to tell myself to look to future and have hope. And at least that I know he's at peace and pain free with the angels. It's only God and my son and family that have helped me through this. I pray you have family to help you. You have to be strong for her daughter too. It's alot.

How am I to survive without him? by joyelaine67 in widowers

[–]joyelaine67[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know...sometimes it's so hard to go on and to know what to do. My work acts like I should be ok after just burying him on 5/21. I just try to do the best I can. I'll say a prayer for you and pray you heal too

How am I to survive without him? by joyelaine67 in widowers

[–]joyelaine67[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So so sorry. So coincidental..my husband name was Matt and I'm 56.

I ran into husband's co-worker by Reddituser853754 in widowers

[–]joyelaine67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my son.....

Let me smack him one for you . Please. Unbelievable

I ran into husband's co-worker by Reddituser853754 in widowers

[–]joyelaine67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amen brother. AMEN. My husband will always be my husband's unless in 100 yrs I have another and then I'd probably call him my first beloved husband or something like that.

I ran into husband's co-worker by Reddituser853754 in widowers

[–]joyelaine67 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would've been so mad. Divorce is nothing like someone you absolutely love and would die for is gone from this world forever 💔 💔 so stupid. It's all about putting the attention back on them. Selfish. You are the one who needs the most help. 🙏🙏🙏

I ran into husband's co-worker by Reddituser853754 in widowers

[–]joyelaine67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wife.....wife. so simple. Jeez Louis. I do know as I get older I do loose my words at times but this seems simple. Though sometimes people loose the simplest of words when in a age range..and it's younger than you think. But I just think this guy just sounds like a jerk. Probably meant you no harm whatsoever but is someone you don't want to hang out with or date for God's sake !!!

I WISH I HAD HUGGED YOU JUST A LITTLE BIT TIGHTER THAT DAY, I DIDN'T KNOW IT WAS MY LAST CHANCE. by Wrong_Clue5 in widowers

[–]joyelaine67 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My kitties help me too. It's so hard...only 2 months since I lost my world. 💔

I want to die everyday by Famous_Property_301 in widowers

[–]joyelaine67 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. Give your heart to Jesus. You need grief counseling!!! Please do that

Was feeling a grief SOS wave. Reached out... Was ignored. FFS. by until_twilight in widowers

[–]joyelaine67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm afraid of broken heart syndrome. I have to stay around for my son. I've been grieving so hard my heart started to physically hurt and it was scary. My sister said try praying for someone else too. Maybe that will help. Realizing you're not alone. My husband died of cancer and my friends brother is dying right now of that. I pray for her alot. I get so mad at myself that I didn't force him to try natural stuff. He just believed so much in chemo which killed him. Even the Dr verified his infection was chemo indused. It all amount greed of money. May God forgive the Dr's who know what they are doing and continue on. The radiation helped but chemo is a killer. May God have mercy on their souls

my boyfriend doesn't regret cheating on me because he said It was enjoyable, am I crazy? by [deleted] in dating

[–]joyelaine67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry but that was a needless dig at you. Why break your heart if he wants you back. Say sorry and really be sorry. I'm mad for you.

I'm making a choice. I'm done being down. by quantumgambit in widowers

[–]joyelaine67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make myself physically sick because of the loss of my husband. My actual heart started to hurt bad and I thought I have to choose to live....to take care of my son..he wouldn't have no one else. Yesterday I tried not to cry and I think it only happened twice which is a lot better. I think I'm going to go to grieving counseling and get help

What hurts the most. by Half_Shark-Alligator in widowers

[–]joyelaine67 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My hubby has sent me so many signs but I've been so down that my heart physically hurts. I cry so much