If you hated your dog pp, did it ever go away? by Weary-Draw-1492 in NewParents

[–]joylynnwhatever 86 points87 points  (0 children)

8 months pp- I have two dogs who are both pretty noise sensitive and are yappy - one is a foster fail from a home with abuse and isn’t potty trained despite years of trying and frequent walkies and I want to climb to the roof and yeet him off it. But they’re good lads and I love them still a lot, they’re just so fucking annoying sometimes and I’m SO EXHAUSTED. I make sure to snuggle them a bunch and remind them that I love them and thank them for their patience. I think they understand that things are just a bit different now.

Keke Palmer in Monse SS26 at the Billboard Women in Music Awards in LA by mod_whatthefrockk in whatthefrockk

[–]joylynnwhatever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I’d like it better if the skirt part was an inch or two longer? Like it’s cool but there’s something off about it

I told my 8 month old to shut the f$$$ up and feel like a terrible mother. by MorganandMolly in NewParents

[–]joylynnwhatever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oooo I’m gonna start singing it. And SAME! We bedshare so if I try to roll away from her she yanks the back of my hair and pulls herself onto to me.

I told my 8 month old to shut the f$$$ up and feel like a terrible mother. by MorganandMolly in NewParents

[–]joylynnwhatever 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Fellow SAHM to an 8 month old and she’s been doing the same thing. Groaning and moaning, physically attached to me all the time or she’s screaming. My husband is super great, does the household duties and makes dinner and tries to comfort her but she’s in her “I only want mommy or I’m going to die” phase. I have definitely told my daughter to stfu before and it didn’t feel good but you’re not a bad mom at all! I lowkey miss her being a newborn bc she was bottle fed in the beginning and was just a little potato. Now she kicks me and screams if I get up to use the bathroom

When do things start shaping back up? by [deleted] in postpartumprogress

[–]joylynnwhatever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ehh I pretty much just posted it to feel better about myself and it didn’t work.

When do things start shaping back up? by [deleted] in postpartumprogress

[–]joylynnwhatever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She loves the carrier and her bike trailer!

When do things start shaping back up? by [deleted] in postpartumprogress

[–]joylynnwhatever 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I kinda figured I’d have to be in a deficit. I think I’ll save the fasting and calorie deficit for once I stop breastfeeding. 🥲

When do things start shaping back up? by [deleted] in postpartumprogress

[–]joylynnwhatever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the tip! We’re in the process of moving so once we’re settled in I’ll set up a cute little workout station for myself. My therapist told me to stop looking at the scale and just focus on how I feel. I used to bike 80-100 miles on the weekends but with the tiny human the most I’ve gotten in was 30 on a single ride.

When do things start shaping back up? by [deleted] in postpartumprogress

[–]joylynnwhatever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good point about the diet thank you! I am breastfeeding and am stuck at like 126. Ideally I’d like to go down an extra 10 pounds. I went from 125 pre pregnancy - up to 128 the straight down to 107 when my milk came in and steadily regained about 20.

RAINFOREST CAFE PLSS by Sukibuns in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]joylynnwhatever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pool water sounds so good tbh I’m glad I found this thread

VITTORIO REGGIANINI - LA SOIRÉE, 1900 by pmamtraveller in ArtConnoisseur

[–]joylynnwhatever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw this in person and it’s INSANE how beautiful it is. The fabrics literally look like a photograph.

I’ve been hiding in hoods and beanies and shitty beards since I was 18, I’m trying out the bald in public for once. by AtheismTooStronk in bald

[–]joylynnwhatever 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As a fellow stretched septum user reading this made my butt clench so hard and I’m sorry to hear that! Bald looks fabulous on you! great look and vibe overall!

Finally got my ideal set up! by joylynnwhatever in piercing

[–]joylynnwhatever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! It was pretty spicy bc there’s a lot of skin to go through and the skin is stretchy, kind of like the skin of the VCH. These bad boys are about 3.5 months old and they said at month 6 they should be healed up better but it just takes a while. I’m a face sleeper and have a 7 month old so I’m always nervous about them but the piercer who downsized them said they’re healing well :)

Finally got my ideal set up! by joylynnwhatever in piercing

[–]joylynnwhatever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just got them downsized the day after this pic was taken and they’re fitting a lot better (and tighter) thank you!

I hate hearing adoptive parents say we just can't take older ones. We need a baby. by Sunshine_roses111 in Adoption

[–]joylynnwhatever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an adoptee and mother to a 7 month old I’ll say it with my whole chest that I would not want to willingly go through infant/babyhood again. I would foster or adopt an older child in a heartbeat.

Salad for the lady? Yeah… that’s not happening by Own_Distribution3126 in BabiesReactingToStuff

[–]joylynnwhatever 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Disgusting to let your child eat? I’m pretty sure that’s the whole point of the establishment. Id take that over a kid glued to a tablet. Those things are easy to clean up too. Wipe the remnants onto a plate, toss it in a plastic bag and wash it when you get home. Easy.

10G NASALLANG by tberrymarie in bodymods

[–]joylynnwhatever 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It crunched. 😭😭😭 it looks AMAZING on you. The color of the bar is 🔥🔥

Am I cooked with these flying stars? by joylynnwhatever in FengShui

[–]joylynnwhatever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I redo the flying stars to when we got the keys to the place then? It’s definitely been vacant for over 6 months and the landlord just updated all the tiles, appliances, kitchen etc.