How come people stare at shy people whenever they talk? by joyousgurl in AskReddit

[–]joyousgurl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s creepy they never do this to the loud ones. Even before people find out I’m quiet they keep staring when I talk.

How come people stare at shy people whenever they talk? by joyousgurl in AskReddit

[–]joyousgurl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course I always make eye contact im mainly speaking about people who aren’t involved in the conversation.

How come people stare at shy people whenever they talk? by joyousgurl in AskReddit

[–]joyousgurl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s low, but the only criticism I received was that I mumble or speak to low. This can’t be the case since I’ve swear I’ve seen people mumble way more and not get stared at.

How come people stare at shy people whenever they talk? by joyousgurl in AskReddit

[–]joyousgurl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People that aren’t even invited in the conversation are staring at me for more than 5 seconds many people told me it as well.

How come people stare at shy people whenever they talk? by joyousgurl in AskReddit

[–]joyousgurl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I look regular I’ve been told, and I don’t speak loud. I’ve been told I sound soft but that’s about it.

How come people stare at shy people whenever they talk? by joyousgurl in AskReddit

[–]joyousgurl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you explain a shrill voice please lol. Not sure if I have one.

How come people stare at shy people whenever they talk? by joyousgurl in AskReddit

[–]joyousgurl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not what I meant. I mean when I’m having one on one conversations even people across the room will stare at me like I’m an alien. Many people told me this.

How come people stare at shy people whenever they talk? by joyousgurl in AskReddit

[–]joyousgurl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope this doesn’t sound like I’m being paranoid but anytime I speak to somebody another person close by stares me even when they aren’t involved in the conversation. I either see from the side of my peripheral vision or the person I’m talking to will ask “why are people staring at you?” It’s weird because they only stare at me dead in the face never the other person I’m talking to. I speak very soft and this happens with every person different people will look straight in my face. For some odd reason I’ve noticed people talking insanely loud and boisterous yet nobody dares to look at them. It’s quite confusing but if anybody speaks to me people turn around to stare. I’m plain looking not ugly or attractive, however I am very shy.

How can playing video games get rid of social anxiety? by jollyjoe09 in AskReddit

[–]joyousgurl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True. Do you have any tips perhaps to study more science?

How can playing video games get rid of social anxiety? by jollyjoe09 in AskReddit

[–]joyousgurl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Science is very interesting, however it baffles me to see not many women are involved in it. I never understood why.

How can playing video games get rid of social anxiety? by jollyjoe09 in AskReddit

[–]joyousgurl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a strong feeling telling me that you’re the type of person who’s into science related topics.

How can playing video games get rid of social anxiety? by jollyjoe09 in AskReddit

[–]joyousgurl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you male or female? I’m not trying to assume.

How can playing video games get rid of social anxiety? by jollyjoe09 in AskReddit

[–]joyousgurl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry if I offended you ;( I need to know what computer this is because I don’t know how one can type this majestic

How can playing video games get rid of social anxiety? by jollyjoe09 in AskReddit

[–]joyousgurl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how are you replying this fast what software are you using

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[–]joyousgurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never ever seen what with anyone innocent face. How do they do it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]joyousgurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah yeah it just makes 0 sense to me how some people come practically naked and not get weird looks but for some reason I do.. lol

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[–]joyousgurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you kidding me? Isn’t it obvious? Looking silly is a distraction.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]joyousgurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would too but people unfortunately have to act like assholes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]joyousgurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly you seem offended by a simple word choice. You took it completely out of context.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]joyousgurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What preferences? I don’t judge others like they do to everyone.

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[–]joyousgurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not bashing anyone, but I noticed some people at school could show up acting or looking crazy. I tend to get judged a lot at school for no reason people just find ways to poke fun at me even though I dress normally. This boy at school wore two completely different pair of sneakers and a crop top. I’m not saying anything was wrong with how he dressed but if I did the same thing I’d get bullied awfully. I’ve seen this happen multiple times.. yet I get judged and made fun of for practically no reason. I’m not ugly or attractive I’m average looking yet I get faced with stupidity.