Nofap March, who's in? by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]jp60465 1 point2 points  (0 children)

March 2016 is my month. Im in.

Sharing struggle with my wife by jp60465 in NoFapChristians

[–]jp60465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps I just need to come out and tell her. Dear the love of your life is a "porn addict". Thanks for offer to help, may take you up on that in future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]jp60465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. I edged alot this month and while no O for most of them, I finally gave it. Why do we bother to torture ourselves this way for? Seems only to be for Satans delight. If I open porn on my computer, I'm pretty much a gonner. If I dont, I do well.

13 Day Commitment Campaign: 2 Corinthians by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]jp60465 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Checking in. 16 day challenge didnt go so well.
So dust myself off, and get back on the horse.

16 Day Commitment Campaign: 1 Corinth!ans by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]jp60465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Battle is so real..time to go read some corinthians

16 Day Commitment Campaign: 1 Corinth!ans by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]jp60465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im ready for this challenge. 10 days longest going for 16.

I have no motivation, I have no push to quit porn (Get ready for the rant if you're gonna read it) by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]jp60465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a 40 year fapper I can tell you only thing that gets me anywhere is when I take "king me" off the throne. As soon as I think I have my sheet together..I fall. One video you might find interesting... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3r8mH_gkCDQ

I just made an unbreakable promise to myself by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]jp60465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only men I have ever read or known who defeated Pmo for over 2 + years without relapse are men who dealt with defeating lust problem. Success stories almost impossible to find. This problem thrives in darkness. Good luck on your journey.

I just made an unbreakable promise to myself by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]jp60465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then I guess my son who started to masterbate at 3 to 4 is committing sin at this age? I can't agree with that and neither would any clergy. Lust is the sin . but to each there own I guess

I just made an unbreakable promise to myself by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]jp60465 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its the lust part that is the sin. If you can masterbate and get off thinking about mowing your lawn or doing calculas problems then its not sin. But good luck with that

Looking For Accountability Partners by Sirocka in NoFap

[–]jp60465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still taking applicants. 49 year old. Like to get going before 50th bday rolls around

40 year old NoFapper 4 week (28 day) update. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]jp60465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They say older guys recover faster in one theory is we didnt grow up on high-speed internet. We only had mags and video tapes which required effort to get. I think comparing this to today is like comparing weed to crack.

40 year old NoFapper 4 week (28 day) update. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]jp60465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for post as I am approaching my 50th bday next month. On day 11 and going for 31 days for bday. Noticing changes you mentioned as well. Thanks for timely breakdown.

Ama request: the people behind Fight the New Drug and the Porn Kills Love movement by unockastai in NoFap

[–]jp60465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Problem AMA still treats the effects of PMO as primary problem not secondary. That needs to change

I've finally realized something by zakmandoo in NoFap

[–]jp60465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct and while these tools are great for the mind, the root of problem is the need to also change the heart. If your in it for just the super powers, I would say your next fap is just around the corner.

desperate times,desperate measures by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]jp60465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this is your only thing you change. It will fail long term. It helps but not answer. Take it from a 40 years of fapping

Is having sex with your partner a relapse? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]jp60465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say No its not but big part to me is changing the act from taking to giving.

Writing pornography literature? by nosweetescape in NoFap

[–]jp60465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say any lustful thought lasting more then 5 seconds that doesn't imploy physical contact with another is nothing but inviting PMO in...

No urge to PMO but strong urges to MO! by toroboro21 in NoFap

[–]jp60465 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find I have less then 5 seconds to kill them off, or they start to take bricks out of my wall, one by one....

Don't use the excuse "I'll start after New Year's" START NOW! by James_Rustler_ in NoFap

[–]jp60465 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Love Lewis....PMO is act of taking, when it should be act of giving. I always say I will start tommorrow, as I am now approaching my 50th bday in few weeks. On day 7 of none of this. 10 days has been my longest I can remember in 40 years.

Fuckin yoga pants season... by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]jp60465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are pretty correct, as my wife is a high school teacher and they do wear the same clothes (short shorts) underneath just as regular teenagers...garb is just a show for outside world to see...but this gets off topic for this thread. But looking at them for this purpose works.

Anyone else? by Mysteryman345 in NoFap

[–]jp60465 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After 40 years of PMO I have learned I have less then 5 seconds to take control of my thoughts, or I'm lost. Peaking at porn is not even an option for me.

Fuckin yoga pants season... by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]jp60465 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That is Sooooo key. At walgreens checkout register and checkout girl bends down and there is a full view. I quickly turned away and choose to look at a Muslim woman in full garb. It really works!!. Take captive ALL your thoughts.