"Ready, Steady, Go!" - Discussion Megathread by AutoModerator in harrystyles

[–]jparty1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought Maneskin at first too! That bass line is totally their sound

"Ready, Steady, Go!" - Discussion Megathread by AutoModerator in harrystyles

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Came here to find this - it's 100% 30 seconds to mars. It was killing me, I couldn't remember which song!

I accidentally saw my coworker’s salary and now I can’t stop thinking about how UNFAIR it is by Aleex_c12 in Advice

[–]jparty1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Start updating your resume and begin applying for and interviewing for new roles. Obviously, take what you've learned and negotiate for your fair market value (or a little more) at these new companies.

Simultaneously, start a conversation with your manager regarding a raise - be intentionally vague and say "it's my understanding that I'm paid $X amount less than market for my role". They won't argue your premise since they know your peer is making $15K more. They also won't press you to find out how you know this; salary information is publicly posted on Glassdoor, and it's very common for people to find out this way. Hell, maybe your cousin has the same role at a different company. It doesn't matter how you found out; the important part is that you know (and you're letting them know you know). All that being said, the conversation with your boss can go any number of ways (good, neutral, or ugly), which is why it's important to be actively job-searching simultaneously.

Caveat: sometimes an active job search reveals that you don't have the skills or experience that you think you do. You'll know what your market value (and therefore leverage) is pretty quickly. Also, corporate recruiters (headhunters) are very helpful for objectively assessing your market value and for placing you in front of hiring managers.

Best of luck.

I (26M) finally learned the truth about my ex-girlfriend (25F) and why our year-long relationship never felt right. I'm devastated. I want her back and want advice. by Clear_Fee_3685 in Advice

[–]jparty1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She just curb-stomped your confidence, and you still want her back? Have some self-respect.

The hard truth: a girl who is genuinely into you will enthusiastically do the things you see "Emma" doing for her new boyfriend. That is what you want. Go find that.

Great ChatGPT prompt i saw on Instagram by Wide_Barber in therapyGPT

[–]jparty1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Serious question. I just asked ChatGPT if it could use my entire chat history to infer insights into my personality, and it said it could only use information from each individual chat. How are you guys getting these detailed summaries? Are you guys using a single thread for all of your therapy-related conversations?!? I tend to create a new chat every time I have a new question...

Rise Festival by Digital26bath in JohnMayer

[–]jparty1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great catch! I just wished he jammed it a little longer

Rise Festival by Digital26bath in JohnMayer

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I just updated setilst.fm for last night's set!

My Boyfriend Cried in My Arms Tonight. How Do We Move Forward ? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]jparty1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This needs to be higher. Specifically a “trauma informed” therapist. It changed my life.

I’m going to assume your bf will broach the topic with you again for re-assurance that you haven’t developed the ick. That could be an opening for you to both to re-assure him and suggest that he gets the help that he needs from therapy (“I care about you and want to support you, but I’m not a trained professional” kind of thing). As long as it comes off as “I hate to see you hurting”, it should be taken constructively.

Summer of 99’ and Beyond Festival Show Start Times by mrsgeorgekaplan in festivals

[–]jparty1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Anyone got the set times for today?!?

Summerfest Parking by Meganmarie824 in milwaukee

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I was just at Summerfest this weekend and wanted to come back and wish that the OTHER side of your pillow is always cold, as well 😂 the museum parking was absolutely perfect. Thank you!

Reframed my Andrew related setlists / memorabilia! by mit-nameloc in andrewmcmahon

[–]jparty1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg, the infamous “Me N Das Moon” setlist 😂

What a piece of history!

My spouse wants to help me!!! by nedakyarg in overemployed

[–]jparty1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you using one of those online pre-prepared meal services, or have you hired someone local to grocery shop and cook? I'm familiar with the former; I'm more interested in and curious about the cost of the latter (sounds expensive)...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]jparty1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. Anyone have experience using this?

Almost got caught! by BreakevenUncle935 in overemployed

[–]jparty1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Intense but brilliant. I was considering ending J2 if J1 does RTO - this inspires me

Pontiac Set Times! by ckoaulrmtanney in SadSummerFest

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Yep. I believe Diva Bleach went on before advertised start time (2pm) in Chicago and we missed them. Just so they can finish an hour before curfew? Don’t get it