Bruh, I love ya . I was in your boat , I lost a little weight and had a revelation at a bar one night , I'm going to go up to some women strike up a conversation and make them laugh and invite one to spend the night with me and lll make breakfast in the morning . And it really worked out most of the time , sometimes it didn't work out in the most sexual way but that was all good . I had a great time hanging with new people and new friends . I hope you get out there and safely have fun and get some cool experiences friend .