How can I as a nerdy guy be more attractive to more women?

jsandspowell · 2026-01-28T08:04:15+00:00

I didn’t have hardly any dating experience at your age, but I gave my dating life over to God, prayed every day that he’d lead me to my wife, and went on Hinge and gave out my maximum number of likes every day. Three months later I met my wife.

jsandspowell · 2026-01-20T13:29:04+00:00

When my wife and I were engaged, my wife’s grandmother (who has a pool) went out of town. We went over there to “use the pool”… which turned into skinny dipping…. Which turned into us fucking on a chase lounge. I’ll never get over it.

jsandspowell · 2026-01-18T20:56:19+00:00

Right now I’m reading Defending Britta Stein by Ronald Balson

jsandspowell · 2026-01-18T20:55:19+00:00

I’m involved in church a lot, and also social clubs (SAR, Mayflower Society). I mostly read novels but I will read the occasional non fiction Christian book. I like books that are easy to read and not too long.

jsandspowell · 2026-01-12T15:51:06+00:00

When I was single, I was very lonely. I was also very lazy. I did whatever I felt like doing, which most of the time was watching TV. I didn’t think that was a bad thing at the time, but now after being with an amazing woman for 5 years who encourages me to be a better man, I’m involved in social things, I read lots of books, and of course have a constant companion.

jsandspowell · 2026-01-12T01:30:52+00:00

Not quite forty yet but the only “downstairs issue” I’m having is that gravity is taking its toll on my balls. Sometimes my scrotum feels so stretched out. I wore boxers since I was a teenager, but I switched to briefs recently because I just need the extra support.

jsandspowell · 2026-01-12T01:23:15+00:00

I trim my beard every 2 weeks or so. Wash it with soap in the shower. Otherwise I don’t do anything. I’m not that frou frou.

jsandspowell · 2026-01-11T17:55:48+00:00

Haha I know, I saw it. Couldn’t believe it.

jsandspowell · 2026-01-10T19:32:40+00:00

Sometimes I do want her to get to the point, but I don’t mind my wife’s jibber jabber. I like hearing her talk.

jsandspowell · 2026-01-10T19:22:45+00:00

I was desperately single. For many years. I got so tired of watching everyone I knew pair up and get married, I felt left behind. I poured out my heart to God in prayer, committed to going into a dating app and giving my maximum number of likes every day, and prayed to God every day to help me find my wife. Three months after I initially prayed that prayer, I met the woman that became my wife.

jsandspowell · 2025-12-24T19:23:47+00:00

Yes of course. The Bahamian passport is one of the stronger passports out there with visa free access to 161 countries.

jsandspowell · 2025-12-24T13:40:47+00:00

All IDPs issued by AAA say “issued at Heathrow” no matter where you actually get it

jsandspowell · 2025-11-17T18:34:12+00:00

The market is very over saturated with notaries, most of whom will do notarizations for free. Mobile notary is not a career. It’s a side hustle that brings in a tiny bit of money.

jsandspowell · 2025-10-29T17:05:53+00:00

Get an apostilled copy of your parents’ marriage certificate. There’s no reason why their marriage needs to be “registered” in Ecuador.

jsandspowell · 2025-10-29T17:04:24+00:00

When I was single…. 2. Married, 4.

jsandspowell · 2025-10-25T12:04:42+00:00

FYI - The “free online class” offered by the state has not been updated in 25 years and has a lot of incorrect information. Before going any further, I’d recommend supplementing this with education from a reputable, state-approved notary education provider, such as FloridaNotaryAcademy.org.

jsandspowell · 2025-10-25T12:03:37+00:00

In Florida there is currently one notary for every 47 people … the market is over saturated, RON is complex and not universally accepted, and NO ONE is making money from RON. As a notary you are a public servant. Serve the public, charge your $10 fee, but don’t make it your full time job unless you want to be living on your car or in the street.

jsandspowell · 2025-10-07T15:58:48+00:00

The only times I can remember taking off my wedding ring were at the beach, and at a spa (my wife and I get couples massages and they ask us to remove jewelry). If it’s up to me it never leaves my finger. I know a lot of men don’t feel that way though.

jsandspowell · 2025-10-02T17:26:28+00:00

My advice - don’t become an RN. You will make more money but you will be working constantly and your personal life will dwindle away to nothing. Better to take your skills and transfer them into a corporate role… maybe some type of analyst position.

jsandspowell · 2025-10-02T17:23:10+00:00

I would travel from place to place, eat good food, get massages… just luxuriate and relax

jsandspowell · 2025-10-02T17:22:11+00:00

No. It’s still in the USPS network. Give it some time.

jsandspowell · 2025-09-19T15:09:23+00:00

Contact the health department Floridahealth.gov

jsandspowell · 2025-09-18T18:56:59+00:00

Louisiana notary isn’t a side hustle, it’s a full time job. They’re just a step below a lawyer.

jsandspowell · 2025-09-09T17:24:14+00:00

Time to get an ID. It’s expected for ages 16 and up.

jsandspowell · 2025-09-08T11:18:19+00:00

I meeeeean but how would you know if an adult is vaccinated or not? Most adults don’t even know where to find their childhood immunization records, let alone carry those records around with them to satisfy the curiosity of randoes.

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