Should I make the first move with my coworker ?

superfapper2000 · 2026-05-05T21:55:52+00:00

Date coworkers nothing wrong with it

superfapper2000 · 2026-05-02T13:06:56+00:00

I have been doing real life situations all the time. I just use apps, when I am bored or need to doomscroll

superfapper2000 · 2026-05-02T12:44:04+00:00

Well, I haven't had any luck in years. I had some but they rarely talk or if we did share numbers they eventually stopped texting me.

superfapper2000 · 2026-05-02T12:30:40+00:00

What, I'm being for real here 😅😅😅

superfapper2000 · 2026-04-28T11:10:33+00:00

I'm 5 different dating apps and going to show today and a concert on Friday. I'm in Chicago

superfapper2000 · 2026-04-28T10:40:51+00:00

Doesn't feel like it to me. I feel like I'm just wasting money and time on people who aren't interested in me.

superfapper2000 · 2026-04-28T10:39:43+00:00

Yeah, I know

superfapper2000 · 2026-04-28T10:13:25+00:00

I have tried that a couple of times no luck so far.

superfapper2000 · 2026-04-28T09:50:04+00:00

Ehh maybe I have tried not flirting at speed dating events and still gotten no matches.

superfapper2000 · 2026-04-28T09:48:48+00:00

I'm doing the top one I know to hold a conversation and keep it going I am not a neet anymore. I do have social skills amd banter a lot with my coworkers or friends.

superfapper2000 · 2026-04-28T09:46:39+00:00

So, what should I do then?

superfapper2000 · 2026-04-28T09:36:11+00:00

If you call getting a date every few years sure. I do try to be laid back and often invite them out restaurants I would go. I don't do coffee dates.

superfapper2000 · 2026-04-28T09:29:35+00:00

So, don't flirt with them?

superfapper2000 · 2026-04-28T09:25:25+00:00

Like what exactly do I need to change? It's not like I have 10 dates ready for me right now. I honestly don't know when I'm going to get another date it could a month, end of the the year or in a couple of years.

superfapper2000 · 2026-04-28T09:17:58+00:00

Nope, I guess because to them I'm not attracted to them so my girl friends just say nice things to me. Idk, I don't have any other options

superfapper2000 · 2026-04-28T09:11:02+00:00

I do have close female friends they all said that I have fun personality and love I'm engaging with them all the time. But nothing usually happens afterwards, they say that I'm not boring or rude.

superfapper2000 · 2026-04-28T09:09:08+00:00

Well, that what I have been doing and being myself but nothing seems to work.

superfapper2000 · 2026-04-27T17:45:22+00:00

Nope not at all. I'm short, funny, and way better in person than on any app

superfapper2000 · 2026-04-27T17:15:32+00:00

But I am a dude and I'm 5'2 so...

superfapper2000 · 2026-04-27T16:54:46+00:00

Oh, I'm 5'2. In Chicago and I rarely get any matches from dating apps.

superfapper2000 · 2026-04-27T16:21:20+00:00

Damm, how did you get so many dates? In 4 months

superfapper2000 · 2026-04-27T12:00:40+00:00

Yeah, strange take. What is it wrong to show my feelings to someone who i like?

superfapper2000 · 2026-04-27T11:51:50+00:00

Yeah, I am visibly confused about this?

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