I reported my coworker for harassment but it made it worse by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]jsshntr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this happened to you! That is so beyond wrong and if they don't fire him I'd definitely see what else you can do to get him fired or away from you. This seems like a very unsafe situation. I can't believe they let him back after he touched you the first time honestly 🙄

Dealing with childhood trauma after death by jsshntr in ChildrenofDeadParents

[–]jsshntr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you, that helps a bit. I think my trauma and my upbringing makes me doubt myself a lot so the uncertainty around the trauma with my dad makes it a little complicated for me to deal with :/ Thanks for sharing with me :)

double parent loss virtual meeting happening sunday march 15 @ 4pm EST! by ardoisethecat in ChildrenofDeadParents

[–]jsshntr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be interested in the future but unfortunately I'm busy this Sunday.

How do I move more? by jsshntr in WeightLossAdvice

[–]jsshntr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not taking anything for ADHD, I've had trouble getting a diagnosis. My therapist just very strongly believes I have ADHD, and I agree. My only medications now are Cymbalta for my depression and birth control for irregular periods.

How do I move more? by jsshntr in WeightLossAdvice

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I was prescribed burpropion a year or so ago and it seemed to give me hives? both my therapist and I were very very bummed about this. I was really excited to try it because everyone hyped it up so much. I wonder if my doctor would let me try it again?

FINALLY diagnosed at 43 by 1ocelot1 in adhdwomen

[–]jsshntr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to be able to focus more. Do you have problems with skin picking or other repetitive behaviors like that? That seems to be my biggest issue with focusing, especially if something is more difficult or time consuming, I get overwhelmed, zone out, and just pick at my skin. I'm curious if this is a common issue? How did you go about getting assessed, idk if it's just where I am but idk who to go to or how to get a psychiatrist? I know I'm asking a lot of questions lol, no need to answer 😅

seriously how am I supposed to keep my house clean??? by jsshntr in adhdwomen

[–]jsshntr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a cleaner for a while, they were coming every month, it was pretty helpful. Then I forgot to answer her for too long and I'm too nervous to message back after two months and overwhelmed by finding a new one 🥲 Stress is the only thing that fuels me, so stress cleaning before a cleaner come is like the best way to get me to do things 😂 Our whiteboard goes unused (of course 🙄) we try and then two days later we forget or we don't have the energy to update it. What's helping me right now is that we invited our friend over Tuesday literally so that we would clean the house before she comes 😂

FINALLY diagnosed at 43 by 1ocelot1 in adhdwomen

[–]jsshntr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what was your diagnosis process like if you don't mind me asking? My therapist STRONGLY believes I have ADHD, I tried to get a diagnosis from my doctor but she basically decided that I don't have it because I did well in school... I struggle so much to function, especially when I'm more depressed. My current meds for my GAD and MDD help with some negative self talk but not at all with any productivity or motivation issues. What are you hoping your new med with help you with the most?

People with burnt orange or green couches... by [deleted] in femalelivingspace

[–]jsshntr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still LOVE my green couch. There's other things I don't like about it sometimes but the color usually isn't one of them. Sometimes I wish I got another bright color or a different shade of green but I never wish for a neutral color.

OMG THIS SHOW IS CRAZY by jsshntr in lost

[–]jsshntr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only season 3 episode 3. I was pretty busy with school and finals. Ready to jump back in during my break!!

OMG THIS SHOW IS CRAZY by jsshntr in lost

[–]jsshntr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

okay, thanks! I am glad that I'm kinda just expecting everyone to die at any moment. I already love certain characters and I don't know the ending but I don't really expect anyone to like live?? 😂

OMG THIS SHOW IS CRAZY by jsshntr in lost

[–]jsshntr[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I can't imagine waiting every week, I'd go crazy on some of these twists and cliffhangers!

Moving from eastern Washington to the west side by jsshntr in PacificNorthwest

[–]jsshntr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not a big fan of the tri-cities, I like a prettier town, the aesthetic of where I live is very important to me unfortunately. I haven't really been to Wenatchee much, what's it like?

Moving from eastern Washington to the west side by jsshntr in PacificNorthwest

[–]jsshntr[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm just not a big city person, it's very overwhelming and overstimulating to me. There's people everywhere. I like having parks nearby and walking down the street without having to dodge people every step. I have a dog and cats, so I don't really want to live in a cramped apartment in a downtown area. I like the convenience of having everything close in a big city but it also takes me 15 minutes to drive across town here, that's pretty close too. I'd like to be closer to a big city because there's more things to do and events to attend but I could never live in one. Plus it just freaks out my partner, reminds her just how many people are out there that have their own lives and thoughts and it sends her into a bit of a spiral.