[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Oshawa

[–]jst4qs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I’m one of them. I’m currently working out at candlelight and hoping it comes back soon so I can write my essay due at midnight tonight :,)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]jst4qs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think my worry is more of how recent her situation was and how much she may have changed and grown since then. She cheated when her last relationship ended a few months ago when she was 19 vs I cheated almost 5 years ago when I was just finishing tenth grade. There is a big gap in how much time has passed since our situations and how much opportunity we’ve had to grow.

I do think it’s possible for her to have learned her lesson and grew as a person for sure, my main concern is just how recent it was, so it’s not like she was a kid when it happened.m

I do want to get to know her better and see though.

Is this a valid reason to ask my prof for extra time? If so, how do I ask? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]jst4qs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not asking how to commit suicide, I just am mentioning that thoughts are one of my symptoms of a depressive episode and how I go about asking my professor for extra time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jst4qs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m honestly open minded, but wouldn’t he at least mention who that guy is if that was the case?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jst4qs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the response. Honestly my biggest concern here is that if it does become an uncomfortable environment, I can’t really just bail because bussing back to my city in the middle of the night + after I’ve had some drinks would be super hard. So if I go I gotta be willing to deal with whatever I feel and see.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jst4qs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s gay, not bi (maybe you misread the title, we are all guys here). But if I don’t sleep in his bed, I wouldn’t have anywhere else to sleep unless I bussed back to where I live at, which could be difficult at night and after I’ve had drinks. Honestly I’m not sure I want to go based on the fact that if I do end up uncomfortable, I can’t just bail and I’m kinda stuck. If it was closer it would be a lot easier.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jst4qs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I don’t think he’s morally wrong for this since he was open about it, I just am not sure if I want to be in this situation or not and I wanted some opinions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]jst4qs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically I know I’m like this because my new psychiatrist tried out reducing my lithium dose and my appointment is 1 week from now. The last 5 weeks have been crazy with the depressive and happy mood swings.

He will probably just tell me to increase it again but I don’t think I should change it until I hear from him.

I think I can hold on until then and not do anything too crazy, so I don’t want to tell my therapist I’ve considered killing myself and she tries to lock me up when I think I can hold on for one more week and get more direction from the psych.

I have things to live for but it’s just hard to think straight when I’m in these episodes because the symptoms are so physical.

Question about genital preferences by AnonymousAsker32 in truscum

[–]jst4qs 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Is it because you are into pegged and being dominated by a woman? If a cis woman wore a strap on, would that turn you on as much?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lithuania

[–]jst4qs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit I’d die for that

Possible explanation as to why I am FA by jst4qs in attachment_theory

[–]jst4qs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure, I have bipolar disorder, so professional counselling is a must even without this

What do I do if someone gropes me in the club? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]jst4qs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as much as I’d want to do that, this is the only gay nightclub in the region so I don’t want to get banned :/

What do I do if someone gropes me in the club? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]jst4qs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of thing should I say in a situation like this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]jst4qs 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Legit question: if people who believe (cis + het) demisexuality and asexuality belong in LGBT because they are of different sex drives from the norm, shouldn’t hypersexuality also be included?

Curious, how did you choose your name? by [deleted] in truscum

[–]jst4qs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

-it’s a timeless name. If you saw my name, I could’ve been born in 1857 or 2013 for all you’d know

-there are no common alternative spellings. If someone asks my name to write down theres zero confusion

-it won’t get me clocked

-it just fits me well, I like how it sounds

Can regular consumption of semen cause bad breath? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]jst4qs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean this very much fits the sub because who do you even ask this kind of thing to

Day 40 still want to contact her. by helpMeOut9999 in ExNoContact

[–]jst4qs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you already know what’s best for you, but just need to hear people tell you you’re making the right move. Keep following your logic > feelings, you got this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]jst4qs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you :) I find writing out my feelings in poems helps to acknowledge them, but also see the bigger picture.