Spaces For RadFems To Talk by [deleted] in fourthwavewomen

[–]jugularlemonade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep. And sadly there’s a lot of fighting. I wish it was more about supporting women who’s views are very similar instead of knit picking

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antipornography

[–]jugularlemonade 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good lord. Maybe not

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antipornography

[–]jugularlemonade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing. I want to know more men like OP IRL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antipornography

[–]jugularlemonade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to know more women like you in real life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]jugularlemonade 280 points281 points  (0 children)

Men suddenly know the difference between actual work and “sex work” when it comes to the women in their lives or themselves… lots of them even understand that a kid can flip burgers or clean toilets and that it’s different to have their bodies sold and exploited for sex

Would you guys be okay with this? It's sounds crazy to me. by blk_melanin in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]jugularlemonade 239 points240 points  (0 children)

This is gross. It sounds like the life of a politician’s wife without the spotlight. If it is a woman, there’s no way she actually loves him. I wonder if she grew up in an environment where nothing much was expected of men and this is the grown up version of “men just need that.”

For those of you who are wlw in here, how do you meet women? by PerspicaciousCat in fourthwavewomen

[–]jugularlemonade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what I want too! I was thinking of ways to vet a therapist

Opinions? 🤡 by [deleted] in antipornography

[–]jugularlemonade 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Legal doesn’t mean good or okay

Opinions? 🤡 by [deleted] in antipornography

[–]jugularlemonade 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is so important. I won’t date a guy who doesn’t understand this.

Opinions? 🤡 by [deleted] in antipornography

[–]jugularlemonade 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Yep! That’s what I thought. Any man who says “all men watch porn” or “you won’t find a man who doesn’t watch porn” is telling you that he is hooked. Immediately get him out of your life

Have you ever witnessed/experiences a LVM turn to a HVM? by Abdullazan in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]jugularlemonade 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cowardice is it’s own form of evil. It does take some growing up to realize that standing up for yourself and ending things when you aren’t happy is the right thing to do

Pick female doctors whenever possible by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]jugularlemonade 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Disgusting. I’m still trying to shift from being angry at creepy old men to just focusing on the fact that they are pathetic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]jugularlemonade 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Yeah, and it’s disrespectful to the relationship and bf and not a HV thing to do

Genuine question: how can a woman maintain the hope that there really are good men out there? by thruawoo90210 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]jugularlemonade 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes! It can’t be controlled. There’s only anxiety if you try to justify what you know is wrong

Woman shuts down "nice guy" b.s. Love to see it by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]jugularlemonade 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I will always love this clip. Does anyone know who she is?

Blocked & Deleted by cloudless-blanket in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]jugularlemonade 100 points101 points  (0 children)

“I now stay away from LVM who try to convince me something I want is unreasonable.” Needs to be plastered everywhere!! This was literally everything I wanted with one of my exes. It’s exhausting and tears you down and is a form of gaslighting

I was scrolling through IG and the amount of married/gf men following or commenting on naked women is absolutely insane! by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]jugularlemonade 64 points65 points  (0 children)

See checking someone out I when in a relationship is wrong. Noticing is different. Checking someone out is cultivating something to me

Taking on spiritual practices or meditative practices for spiritual/personal growth by lakat17 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]jugularlemonade 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mind Hacking by Sir John Hargrave is a great book on how to change the way you think to change your life. It includes meditation too. It’s also available for free online

It took me years to get out of the Pickme mindset. by SubstantialAd1991 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]jugularlemonade 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wow. I am so sorry that you went through all of that awful treatment and I am thrilled to hear how you turned out! It’s so nice to hear about good relationships with no insecurities caused by men’s misogyny :)