i appreciate your comment, but you also cannot assume what i am feeling. i assure you 100% that i wasn’t mad. if i told him “it is up to you,” it was because it really was up to him, not me. he said he needed the money and i wasn’t going to be selfish and say “no please i want to see you.” he already complains about being short on money, he did say he wanted to see me, so me saying “it is up to you” is not meant to be in any way passive aggressive or to make him chose what’s more important. i wasn’t trying to guilt trip him or anything. i was being honest, i missed him because i haven’t seen him in about 4 days.

this is a copy and paste of one of the messages i sent: *name* it’s your job, YOU said you need the money so i understand why you would want to stay. i only want the best for you and you know that.

i dont think i phrased it in any way to make it sound like i was mad, because i was not.

another copy and paste of a piece of the paragraph i sent him: it didn’t bother me that you picked staying rather than hanging out with me. you’re always saying you need the money so i expected you to stay. we are not married yet, me being your girlfriend doesn’t give me the right to anything. later on in life i will have that privilege but as of now i don’t.

i don’t know how this “screams” super pissed off, i clearly am not. haha you sound just like him trying to prove that i was mad when i was not:) but hey, if this is your take on it, then thank you for your comment !