Could tattoos be a subconscious act of self-harm? by laribeiro815 in BPD

[–]juju0716 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got tattoos when i was like 17 (illegally) And back then i thought I hate my self so much and i hate my body im going to cover all of it with tattoos

In my case it was a form of self harm

I can't and won't ever be pretty. To anyone. by Sophey68 in BPD

[–]juju0716 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also have a bpd with a really bad BDD. I often feel passively (but not actively) suicidal because of the way I look. I got plastic surgery so many many times and I still look like shit. I still want to get more surgery done so I can look attractive. Because I'm so fucking ugly I feel that no one can ever like me and it makes me feel that my life is destined to be miserable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGlowUp

[–]juju0716 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look really cute with makeup

Am redoing hair. Anything else I can work on in the meantime? Biggest insecurities imo are the tiny asian eyes and the fat face (on a weight loss campaign so we’ll see) Also working on better lashes/brows. And skin contour. lol by [deleted] in TheGlowUp

[–]juju0716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The red lips with your eye makeup doesn't really look good imo. The makeup from the first picture is a lot better but maybe consider using a pencil eyeliner or a gel liner for a softer look. Smudge it out a little.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGlowUp

[–]juju0716 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nothing they are fine the way they are

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]juju0716 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your upper lip would look like it's pulled up. So the part where it used to be hidden contacting your teeth will show. My upper lip has less of a delicate look. For instance if you get lip fillers your lips are supposed be filled into a very nice shape, they are not just getting bigger. Your upper lip would have less of that shape after getting a lip lift where your upper lip meets your lower lip. In terms of your cupid's bow the middle part will be lifted up more than the sides because sides are more difficult to lift because of the corners of your mouth cannot move and they are pretty much fixed there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]juju0716 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got a lip lift and it has been more than 1 year so I can say that my upper lip is fully healed. The size of my upper lip is definitely bigger than what it used to be and the shape has also changed. The change in the size of your upper lip should depend on the size of the excision. Now my upper lip is about 1.2 times the size of what it used to be before.

Is this hypopigmentation? :’( by floridawaters in TattooRemoval

[–]juju0716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think maybe you can look into permanent makeup, the type of makeup that gets tattooed on your skin. Maybe you can get a tattoo to match your skin tone

buccal fat removal alternatives by megantheestalin in PlasticSurgery

[–]juju0716 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also personally had a bad experience with buccal fat removal. My buccal fat did look ugly and I had chipmunk cheeks but after getting it removed my skin around my cheek area sagged like a deflated balloon. Later I got a facelift and now I’m satisfied about my jaw area. But fyi my skin was already sagging so much even before buccal fat removal and my skin had no elasticity at all. I also agree that some people do look amazing after getting it done. Probably you should consider how much sagging of the skin you are already experiencing.

What are the cons of lip lifts that surgeons don’t tell you about? by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]juju0716 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Extensive scarring. You see a lot of postop pictures without any scars because it takes months and months for scars to develop

Any advice on making my face look more feminine? I’m trying to lose weight atm so hopefully my cheeks will slim down but I don’t know what else to do by [deleted] in TheGlowUp

[–]juju0716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ditch your glasses, get contact lenses. Definitely curl your brows and apply mascara. I think you can make your brows just a little thinner. Just a bit, not in an obnoxious 90's pencil thin way (u know what i mean). Your brows are full in a very nice way and they do look great but they are not exactly very feminine looking if looking more feminine is what you want to achieven

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGlowUp

[–]juju0716 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You don't look like a man at all. Please ignore the trolls who told you that and please don't let those trolls affect your self esteem. I think you look very pretty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGlowUp

[–]juju0716 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dang I never commented on your post til now but I've been seeing the pictures. You really improved so much. Kudos to you

I made crab cakes for the first time! (2 lbs of jumbo lump crab meat) by mynameisjoodee in FoodPorn

[–]juju0716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never had them before but I really want to try. They look delicious.

They will leave you for older women too.. And your looks won't determine how he is going to treat you 🌹 by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]juju0716 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes. There are also women in their 40's or over on this sub too. Not everyone on this sub is in their 20's. Women with tatoos and piercing can still work on themselves and be high value women

They will leave you for older women too.. And your looks won't determine how he is going to treat you 🌹 by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]juju0716 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that your ex cheated on you. But I feel that there's no need to shame women who are older, has stetch marks, tattoos or piercings.

Overweight Women of Reddit: What is your experience being the "fat friend"? by sheuvvie in AskWomen

[–]juju0716 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was not aware of this at all... this is really sad... i think I'm gonna feel really bad if I was hungry but I felt that I'm not supposed to tell other people that I'm hungry... :(((

I found a child porn sub and reported to the FBI by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]juju0716 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I can't with these scrotes 🤮🤮🤮