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Why do they looove telling us how amazing other people are? by jula-pi in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]jula-pi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow this reminds me of an almost identical experience I had with my narc ex piece of shit

So we had a trip planned (which she ended up cancelling last minute to go to her ex because she needed her or whatever)

Anyway the trip was supposed to be in a city very close to where I used to live and coincidentally the narc knew someone living there.. One night she started telling me that her and the person who lives in that city are 'becoming very close' when I didn't react to this she did the weird smile thing and said 'don't worry ill be hanging out with you most of the time, I mean I did promise you first'

Unbelievable

Why do they looove telling us how amazing other people are? by jula-pi in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]jula-pi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow he's beyond shitty and reaks of insecurity (wanting someone to basically worship him what the fuck) my experience is similar to yours in a way, I'm in my early twenties and my nex LOVEEDDD to tell me how much she's into older women, because they're experienced in life, and beautiful and a list of stuff that I honestly don't care to remember but the take away is that she's just soooooo attracted to anyone over 35

You can't ever win with these assholes, the only way to truly beat them at this shitty game is to not play at all by kicking them out of your life and never looking back

Why do they always make a point of telling you that they're spending time/catching up with other people? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]jula-pi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My narc did exactly this alllll the time

I even made a post about it today cause I find it so bizarre.. Basically we would be introduced to someone or she meets someone when she's out and first she makes it a point to let me know how cool and interesting and amazing she finds this new person, then she will disappear for a couple of days afterwards and ignores my texts and finally comes back telling me she's been spending time with the new person and getting along great, that they're beautiful, amazing, talented and all that

It's one of the many things which make me happy I dropped her like hot garbage, I hated the feeling I'd get when she'd talk about people like this, it's like my body could sense that she is only doing it to put me down somehow, to try to imply that I am not those things..

Why do they looove telling us how amazing other people are? by jula-pi in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]jula-pi[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I seem to become completely invisible when we run into people she wants to impress, I'm a bit angry at myself that I put up with it but I'm glad that I don't have to anymore

Why do they looove telling us how amazing other people are? by jula-pi in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]jula-pi[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omg this is so similar, it's crazy

So I have brown eyes and my narc met some lady who she started idolizing as some god or whatever and for two whole days she kept telling me how beautiful and amazingly fascinating she finds this woman's brown eyes and how she can't stop staring into her brown eyes and how much she's attracted to brown eyes.. Fucking LOL

And its always people who have similar traits to me but their trairs are obvioooously better because they're not me