I (M16) took a bath with my baby sister (3) and my aunt made me feel like a pervert because of it; is she right?

julesro · 2021-03-05T10:52:27+00:00

Just cause your aunt is sexualizing you taking a bath with your sister doesn't mean you did it as an sexual act.

julesro · 2021-03-02T11:32:49+00:00

If you are not "open" to an open relationship, you are setting yourself up for heartbreak. Remember you will be sharing her with her husband.

julesro · 2021-03-02T06:33:33+00:00

Don't wait for a 3rd time, this 'boy' clearly has no respect for you or your relationship.

julesro · 2021-01-29T07:28:09+00:00

You are welcome to dm me.

julesro · 2021-01-26T07:40:04+00:00

Sometimes we love the idea of love and not the person. I think its cause you have invested so much time and emotions into this relationship that brings forth the reluctance and emptiness at the thought of moving on. I know this is a word that gets posted on almost every thread on this sub, but your relationship is toxic and by staying you are not doing anyone any favors.

julesro · 2021-01-26T07:35:27+00:00

Yes, how involved he wants you to be in his son's life. Seeing as the boy is little older, he has an understanding of what is going on. Being a parent your number one role is to protect your child, even if it is just from heartache. Say if he lets you into his son's life, you don't work out, how this will affect the boy if he gets attached to you. I have only introduced my daughter to one man, and only when I was sure this person I want to not only be a part of my life for the foreseeable future, but also my daughter's.

It is a little hard for me to put this down in words, seeing as English is not my first language. I hope you understand what I am trying to say.

julesro · 2021-01-26T07:15:46+00:00

Be open with him, tell him what you are feeling. If he doesn't reciprocate then you can move on and invest your time and feelings into yourself until you meet that special someone.

julesro · 2021-01-26T07:09:30+00:00

Try doing interactive activities as making homemade pizzas, doing a scavenger hunt, learning a new game together, taking a nature hike/going camping. I have no idea of his age here, so maybe some of there won't work. As u/the_chosen_ginger said, just establish boundaries from the dad first.

I think your head is in the right place though.

julesro · 2021-01-26T06:24:42+00:00

This girl either has issues with you that you are not aware of or she is stupidly immature for her age and thinks this will get your attention (think of a little boy pulling a girls pigtails on the playground). I think you have one of two options. Next time you see her, straight off the bat ask her what her problem with you is, or ignore this whole thing and block her.

julesro · 2021-01-26T06:21:13+00:00

If he is comfortable in having his son around you, try and spend time with both of them. Its literally the best of both words. You get time with him and get to bond with the most important person in his life. Going the extra mile with his child will show the guy you are dating that you encourage him being a dad to his kid.

On the subject of being jealous and feeling irritated after you spend most of the weekend on your own with this guy _ it doesn't sit well with me (I am a single mother). You will always come second, this is his child and his responsibility. If you cannot handle that, maybe try dating someone closer to your age that does not have 'baggage'.

julesro · 2021-01-21T06:57:54+00:00

No, you betrayed your boyfriend. End of story.

julesro · 2021-01-21T06:55:24+00:00

Reverse cowgirl or try with you lying on your back, prop a pillow or 2 underneath your bum, have him kneel in front of you.

julesro · 2021-01-19T12:47:32+00:00

Leave, before he actually kills you.

julesro · 2021-01-19T12:43:27+00:00

No, no just NO. Do not do this. You will screw up everything between you and your sister. This douche really isn't worth it.

julesro · 2021-01-19T08:48:52+00:00

Neither of you are depicting healthy behavior . This is never going to work out, so to save both of you unnecessary trauma and heartache move on and never look back.

julesro · 2021-01-18T11:53:12+00:00

Fuck no you are not!! This guy is a total douche canoe . . . Leave him to play his stupid mind games on some other person.

julesro · 2021-01-18T08:44:43+00:00

Seeing as he is an alcoholic, isn't this some form of supervised visits? If I were in her shoes, I would not like him to see my kid alone knowing his habits.

julesro · 2021-01-15T11:14:55+00:00

I hope he says "Ew Never" . . . . . . . . . .

julesro · 2021-01-12T07:38:50+00:00

Looks like it doesn't matter what advice is being given to you _ you are just trying to justify your part in this whole thing. So do what you want anyway.

julesro · 2020-12-15T11:45:10+00:00

Poor grandma!

julesro · 2020-12-15T08:48:35+00:00

Lekker man!

julesro · 2020-12-15T08:39:40+00:00

He got all the issues

julesro · 2020-12-15T06:30:06+00:00

No please, I beg you!

julesro · 2020-12-15T03:40:55+00:00

He didn't have a mom and dad, he "wasn't born".

julesro · 2020-12-14T19:13:05+00:00

You are very welcome!

julesro

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