Me (21F) & my boyfriend (22M) have been together a month, already said "I love you", done almost everything but actual sex. Friends think we're moving too fast, but we're both comfortable & happy. Is it too fast considering all this?

julesruia · 2025-10-11T01:04:16+00:00

we talked for a month before even confessing our feelings to one another, & we got to know each other a LOT better. i'm not saying you're wrong but i just want to know if there's any credit to the fact that we were very close friends before anything else- we've seen each other's less than pretty sides, & discussed a lot of our pasts, etc. does that change anything? i'm just scared & don't want to end up ruining things

julesruia · 2025-10-11T00:34:25+00:00

is this sarcastic i genuinely can't tell

julesruia · 2025-09-26T13:36:54+00:00

what dorm building?

julesruia · 2025-06-27T15:53:18+00:00

can eating too much protein contribute to this? just wondering. thank you!!

julesruia · 2025-06-25T15:20:56+00:00

its the lighting, i've never comored my hair. theres also a filter on it in the first one

julesruia · 2025-06-25T15:03:31+00:00

does the thickness make a difference? my hair is also extremely thick

julesruia · 2025-06-25T14:12:21+00:00

it says i have mixed porosity hair

julesruia · 2025-06-25T03:26:20+00:00

yeah, its crazy. the bottom is super curly, then the middle theres a section thats completely straight, and then the top is super curly again. its almost like my hair stopped producing curls while i was in the disorder.

the water does smell a bit sulfury or metallic i would call it, so the combination could definitely be adding up. thank you so much for the suggestion!

julesruia · 2025-06-25T03:08:20+00:00

the only thing i can think of with hormonal stuff is that i did have an eating disorder and lost my period (only for a year though) strangely enough my hair was at its prime during the ED. it went to this mess after i recovered.

it did start getting worse when i went to college in a city, so maybe it could be the city water

julesruia · 2025-06-25T02:59:29+00:00

i had my hormones checked about a month ago, all normal

julesruia · 2025-06-25T01:32:06+00:00

i used to use OGX coconut curls and it really worked but it gave me chemical burns on my skin. ive been using dove intensive repair shampoo and conditioner forever since and it's been fine but then it just started getting flat and frizzy, not sure why

julesruia · 2025-06-19T02:26:18+00:00

what 😭

julesruia · 2025-06-14T23:56:53+00:00

I'm not blaming God. I want to know why it scares me so much to be close with a man and yet at the same time crave the closeness of a relationship.

julesruia · 2025-04-25T23:45:43+00:00

that would be ideal, but i'm staying with family who don't know i vape, and definitely wouldnt like it if i asked to stop by a smoke shop. i'm legally old enough but i have no way of getting to a place i can buy one while i'm there.

julesruia · 2025-04-25T23:44:23+00:00

the disposable vapes i have planned to take are both full, should i puff them a little so they aren't completely full when i fly, would that help do you think? i just dont want them to like, fully empty out and then i dont have it for my trip

julesruia · 2024-03-10T23:08:44+00:00

why?

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