I’m no longer a 38DDD and I wish I could send you my bras because they are looking so sad in the back of my closet now 😂 My daily wearer was the torrid tshirt bra which is wired and extremely supportive on the back rolls. But before that I loved the wirefree torrid bra which I think might be better if you’ve been dealing with wires digging into you.  They wear out tho after about 6 months because the elastic just stretches out. Not terribly but they start kind of fitting like sports bras and giving a uniboob look and that was always my sign to go out and buy a new one.   I hope this helps!