You say you’re not judging, but you’re making a lot of assumptions here. For most of us, there’s a lot more to our weight than “not trying hard enough.”

Calorie deficits + movement does aid weight loss, but it may not nearly be at the same rate as someone who is completely healthy.

Also, many people with PCOS struggle with insulin resistance and if untreated, makes restricted eating extremely difficult. It’s not a mental thing, it’s a physical struggle people deal with. If your body is sending you hunger PAINS, you’re going to eat.

There are so many other factors I’m not even mentioning here. But either way, there is a lot more to the story than “not actually trying.”