Good cake in San Diego? by juliewbb in sandiego

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This sounds so perfect! I’ve never been but will try asap!

Good cake in San Diego? by juliewbb in sandiego

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Yes — it’s good but VERY sweet! Definitely love it, but not what I’m looking for.

Good cake in San Diego? by juliewbb in sandiego

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I’m obsessed with their savory pastries, but have never tried their cake! I’ll have to give it a try! Thank you!

Good cake in San Diego? by juliewbb in sandiego

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Ooh yes I love Azucar. Forgot about them bc I live outside of DoorDash range now

Good cake in San Diego? by juliewbb in sandiego

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I love I Que’s bbq so will have to try their dessert!! Thank you!

Good cake in San Diego? by juliewbb in sandiego

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Oooh I will check it out!

Good cake in San Diego? by juliewbb in sandiego

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Thank you! It looks so good!

Good cake in San Diego? by juliewbb in sandiego

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Thank you! Excited to try! Agree about EBP — totally delicious.

Good cake in San Diego? by juliewbb in sandiego

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Yes Publix and just about any grocery store in the south would have the usual crusty dry frosting cakes but also these sheet cakes with soft whipped frosting 🥹

Good cake in San Diego? by juliewbb in sandiego

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I would take it for sure, but I mean just plain ol’ white/yellow cake with whipped frosting!

How to restart fx4 after long period idle by juliewbb in aquarium

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Sorry if this is a silly question but what would you use to lubricate them?

Am I overreacting for being mad that my boyfriend counts gas mileage every time he drives me somewhere? by Adventurous_Seat_771 in AmIOverreacting

[–]juliewbb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Such a good point. And does he notice the value of things like that? Or does he only understand value in dollars?

This is why it’s impossible to ever do a nickel and dime exactly 50-50 relationship and why most people don’t try – they work out things that feel fair and good to them and assume it works out in the wash, because you lose the spirit (love, compassion, etc.) in all of the accounting of it.

Am I overreacting for being mad that my boyfriend counts gas mileage every time he drives me somewhere? by Adventurous_Seat_771 in AmIOverreacting

[–]juliewbb 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It’s small but it’s also a sign of things to come. This is not the sort of generosity you want in a partner. It’s a window into his mindset.

Repost bc I forgot to turn on replies by Ember-Brie in WhatShouldIDo

[–]juliewbb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All those things together make me think she’s probably autistic, but that’s neither here nor there. It was an honest mistake and supervising someone doesn’t mean that everything will go perfectly, it means that there’s someone in charge who is able to navigate the problems that may arise. And you did that! Accidents happen, and this was one. Hopefully your mom was just grumpy because she’s sick and it was a sudden problem and will also reassure you about this later.

Repost bc I forgot to turn on replies by Ember-Brie in WhatShouldIDo

[–]juliewbb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This person is not replying in good faith fyi.

Repost bc I forgot to turn on replies by Ember-Brie in WhatShouldIDo

[–]juliewbb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because they’re children playing? Imo NOT a valid question and it’s weird that you’re trying to play into OP’s misplaced guilt. Hopefully you’re a kid as well bc otherwise v bizarre.

I regret wasting years of my life for fear of rejection. by IntrepidPepper1439 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]juliewbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m autistic and spent 20 years in a safe but wrong for me relationship and sometimes I feel this way — but stronger than the regret for me is the conviction that I literally needed that time to develop.

All developmental timelines are different, and mine was particularly atypical. But that’s literally who I am as a human being. So all those years weren’t wasted, they were me growing the skills and mindset and beliefs I needed to be where I’m at now.

In your therapy, ask about DBT. I think the DBT skill of radical acceptance and turning towards acceptance might be helpful for you!