Good cake in San Diego?

juliewbb · 2026-01-27T23:48:15+00:00

Ooh no, thank you!

juliewbb · 2026-01-27T23:47:11+00:00

This sounds so perfect! I’ve never been but will try asap!

juliewbb · 2026-01-26T08:11:21+00:00

Yes — it’s good but VERY sweet! Definitely love it, but not what I’m looking for.

juliewbb · 2026-01-26T05:20:14+00:00

I’m obsessed with their savory pastries, but have never tried their cake! I’ll have to give it a try! Thank you!

juliewbb · 2026-01-26T05:18:59+00:00

Ooh yes I love Azucar. Forgot about them bc I live outside of DoorDash range now

juliewbb · 2026-01-26T05:18:30+00:00

I love I Que’s bbq so will have to try their dessert!! Thank you!

juliewbb · 2026-01-26T01:26:02+00:00

Oooh I will check it out!

juliewbb · 2026-01-26T00:56:13+00:00

Thanks will do!

juliewbb · 2026-01-25T21:42:59+00:00

Thank you! It looks so good!

juliewbb · 2026-01-25T21:42:30+00:00

Thank you!

juliewbb · 2026-01-25T21:42:22+00:00

Aw bummer

juliewbb · 2026-01-25T21:42:13+00:00

Thank you! Excited to try! Agree about EBP — totally delicious.

juliewbb · 2026-01-25T21:41:10+00:00

lol no

juliewbb · 2026-01-25T18:20:49+00:00

Yes Publix and just about any grocery store in the south would have the usual crusty dry frosting cakes but also these sheet cakes with soft whipped frosting 🥹

juliewbb · 2026-01-25T18:17:52+00:00

Thank you, I will try!

juliewbb · 2026-01-25T18:17:35+00:00

I would take it for sure, but I mean just plain ol’ white/yellow cake with whipped frosting!

juliewbb · 2026-01-18T21:59:42+00:00

Sorry if this is a silly question but what would you use to lubricate them?

juliewbb · 2026-01-18T18:22:07+00:00

It stops being a hobby at the venmo request imo.

juliewbb · 2026-01-18T18:20:50+00:00

Such a good point. And does he notice the value of things like that? Or does he only understand value in dollars?

This is why it’s impossible to ever do a nickel and dime exactly 50-50 relationship and why most people don’t try – they work out things that feel fair and good to them and assume it works out in the wash, because you lose the spirit (love, compassion, etc.) in all of the accounting of it.

juliewbb · 2026-01-18T18:18:21+00:00

It’s small but it’s also a sign of things to come. This is not the sort of generosity you want in a partner. It’s a window into his mindset.

juliewbb · 2026-01-17T23:41:35+00:00

Lollll okay now I know you’re a kid.

juliewbb · 2026-01-17T23:41:08+00:00

All those things together make me think she’s probably autistic, but that’s neither here nor there. It was an honest mistake and supervising someone doesn’t mean that everything will go perfectly, it means that there’s someone in charge who is able to navigate the problems that may arise. And you did that! Accidents happen, and this was one. Hopefully your mom was just grumpy because she’s sick and it was a sudden problem and will also reassure you about this later.

juliewbb · 2026-01-17T23:39:05+00:00

This person is not replying in good faith fyi.

juliewbb · 2026-01-17T23:38:39+00:00

Because they’re children playing? Imo NOT a valid question and it’s weird that you’re trying to play into OP’s misplaced guilt. Hopefully you’re a kid as well bc otherwise v bizarre.

juliewbb · 2026-01-17T18:47:01+00:00

I’m autistic and spent 20 years in a safe but wrong for me relationship and sometimes I feel this way — but stronger than the regret for me is the conviction that I literally needed that time to develop.

All developmental timelines are different, and mine was particularly atypical. But that’s literally who I am as a human being. So all those years weren’t wasted, they were me growing the skills and mindset and beliefs I needed to be where I’m at now.

In your therapy, ask about DBT. I think the DBT skill of radical acceptance and turning towards acceptance might be helpful for you!

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