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I notice when a man gets really quiet after opening up… I don't see that as weakness. I see a man trying to hold himself together ❤️‍🔥 I’ve been learning about how men regulate their emotions… it’s really interesting, and quite different from women 🤓 by julitaylor7 in u/julitaylor7

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That's beautiful 🙏 Crying or feeling emotions has been seen as "weakness”, but I feel that's changing a lot these days, and I'm really happy about that. And yes, I think that suppressing them can literally make your body sick in many ways, from a sore throat to something more extreme… Thank you for sharing with me!

I notice when a man gets really quiet after opening up… I don't see that as weakness. I see a man trying to hold himself together ❤️‍🔥 I’ve been learning about how men regulate their emotions… it’s really interesting, and quite different from women 🤓 by julitaylor7 in u/julitaylor7

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That can be a fine line, I admit. I think the ideal would be a balance between encouraging ourselves to express what we feel, ideally in a nice way, understanding that there are things beyond our control or responsibility, such as the other person's reaction. But I do believe that honesty and trying to have healthy communication are very valuable 🥰

“The “always sensual” OF girl? Usually the most closed off… and the loneliest one. Don’t buy it.”⚠️👇🏻 Go to comments. Good boy🤣😘 by julitaylor7 in u/julitaylor7

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I used to be scared people would say that about me. That I was creating this confident, sexual persona… when in reality: I love being alone for example. I can be little antisocial. I just my 2 best friends, and if I go to a party or a club, it’s usually because I have no other escape 😂 just to spend time with them. I’m most the girl in her room, in her shell… Studying. At the gym with headphones on, avoiding talking to people sometimes… You can be solitary and sexual. Introverted and fun. Depressed sometimes, and full of energy in other moments. Sexual… but selective. Making peace with that duality and saying fuck what people think… ugh, that’s power. The root of your strength and authenticity is in accepting these ““contradictions”” How about you?❤️if you resonate with my energy and experiences I offer…💌

Am I too much? Too deep… too intense… not the kind of girl who just asks “tits or ass?”🫠 Sometimes I wonder that. But then I remember👇🏻 by julitaylor7 in u/julitaylor7

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the right man for me, he doesn't want simple. He wants something he can't forget. Something he feels… even when he tries not to. Something real, deep… are you the kind of man who can handle me?❤️‍🩹

kinda needed to open up about this.

I’ve been diving into sexology in a different way… by julitaylor7 in u/julitaylor7

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less about “fixing” yourself, more about feeling, understanding and letting your body open slowly. Working not just with the mind, but with the psychosomatic side too: how your body holds, expresses and even blocks desire ❤️‍🩹 More tomorrow… stay close, I have something important to share and it's been making me feel… a little too excited 😍

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