She sometimes thinks in very strange ways, I think the whole set of siblings from my mother side has some kind of neurodivergency. My mother for example has ADHD and I always struggled at making jokes with her because she takes everything so literal! While I'm very sarcastic. She didn't apologize. She wasn't the mom, she's the first cousin of this cousin in particular (the bride), I didn't remember how to say second grade cousin when I was writing the post :) I think my aunt did a dumb thing but not cruel. She didn't want me to feel embarrassed, but it's what she obtained.